Ok. all of the crazy teenager people who are out there having sex don't answer ok.
I have a bofriend who is 16. He is so different then all the other stupid crazy teenagers in the world as a kid and still going on now he goes through hell and his family has abandoned him. I love him.. you might not believe me but i do. he is 2 1/2 yrs. older than i am. My mother approves of him because of the way that he is. He loves me and cares so much some people ask if he's gay. He;s not. Because of the age difference their are bounderies that he and i are expected to stay within. Like no kissing,sex, etc... i don't want sex at all and neither does he.. I want him to hold me in his arms and kiss me though but then it would brake the trust that we have with my mom. in so many ways he seems like a big brother. its weird. but i want him to kiss me and embrace me but he and i respect my moms rules. Should we do it anyway.... if so how do i keep it from her i tell her everything she's. ug
2006-11-13 12:19:37 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you kidding me. uh! kissing!!!! kissing!!! tell your mom to get the **** out of the bible thumping conservative box she lives in and step into the new world. sex will come too, sooner than you think, whether you like it or not
2006-11-13 12:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good job having open communication with your mother, I would explain these emotions to your mother and go from there, sex is something special and you are young as well as your boyfriend, and although he sounds perfect and mature, waiting will only make your relationship better. Your body is going through alot of changes right now so that has alot to do with why you want more physically, like I said talk with your mother and go from there.
2006-11-13 20:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear...how lucky of you to have a trustworthy boyfriend...somebody who has the strength to avoid temptations. You said you dont want to have sex as well as your boyfriend. If you want to be successful againts temptation then stop dreaming about kissing and embracing for this simple acts of loving will just weaken your defenses and will lead to something crucial that will surely loose the trust your mother has given to both of you. Believe me...kissing and embracing will just ignite the carnal desire within you...loosing your self-control. Beware for your own good.
2006-11-13 20:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay within God's boundaries. No pre-marital sex.....period. Your mother is not gonna get you into heaven, but obeying God's commandments will. Just obey God!
2006-11-13 20:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young for this much relationship mess already. take your time. Listen to mom on this one.
2006-11-13 20:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say ok. then not okay.
2006-11-13 20:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋