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it's like some kind of nymphomaniac outbreak or something going on out there.
sigh.....

2006-11-13 12:18:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Scientists claim that approx. 22 per cent of females are unfaithful, and that the reasons are partly genetic, partly social:

http://science.box.sk/newsread.php?newsid=5974

This means there are roughly three-quarters of women out there who will be unlikely to cheat.

It also goes both ways. Men cheat too, and it is just as awful. I think it's more about types of people -- there are lousy people out there in the world and chances are sooner or later one has to run across one or two of them. I'm very sorry if that happened to you.

I saw Lynn Redgrave (I think it was) interviewed on Larry King a few years ago, and she had some horrendous story to tell about her husband having an affair and secret children with some woman who then married her son. She said, 'Infidelity is the worst.' She also said, 'I think I miss most what I thought I had.' Her life was totally shattered and her husband seemed not to understand what he had done.

I know scientists suggest that people are promiscuous for biological reasons -- but I think some people just have a built in desire to wreck things because they can't deal with something real that might work out.

I knew a guy a few years ago who was really broken up over a girlfriend who had cheated on him. He went on and on about it, and I could see it was awfully painful. I told him that he wasn't alone -- to look at movies and tv -- infidelity is everywhere. You see it in novels and films all the time precisely because it is common and people try to deal with it by watching or reading stories about it. I told him to be glad at least he hadn't married her, put in years and years, had kids, worked in a tough job, and then have her destroy it all by cheating -- because that happens to people, half their life spent on someone who was not worth it. So even if you have had a tough time, be glad the girl or girls is/are gone, and look around for the other 78 per cent of women who won't behave like that. They do exist, you know.

2006-11-13 12:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Katrine 4 · 0 0

Well unfortunately I think just as many guys cheat as women do - I tend to feel like it's the guys doing it al the time but that would be because I'm female. Anyway, your statement is a bit of an over-generalisation...women don't cheat ALL the time. Maybe you just end up with the wrong type? Have a look at your past r/ships and the type of people they were, see if you can see a pattern, and head in the other direction. Good luck!

2006-11-13 12:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by BluLettice 2 · 1 0

Why do some men cheat on women?
Why do some PEOPLE cheat on their partners?

1.) Grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side. Really it is!
2.) Not getting enough attention from home. (of course it shouldn't matter if your spouse works 50 hours a week and is tired the end of the day! This is about your needs)
3.) Your spouse/ partner doesn't tell you how hot you are and make you feel pretty/handsome. This absolutely gives you the right to go out and wh0re around on them!
4.) You aren't really sure that love your partner/spouse anyway, and definitely need to "test drive" other potentials before you leave him/her!............

BULL SH*T

They cheat because they have
no morals.
no character
no sense of decency.
Plain
& simple.

2006-11-13 12:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0 0

Ohhh no. Dude, you've started a gender war. Be wary of the consequences.


Seriously though, don't ever point the finger at the other sex. They'll have just as many (maybe even more) fingers to point back at you. That goes for you too, girls.

2006-11-13 12:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Link 4 · 1 0

Well it does take two to tango bud. Guys cheat on women all the time and the women take the men back. So women have a higher sex drive then men, women want their share too....

2006-11-13 12:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0 1

I think that both sexes can cheat. I am a woman and I don't cheat. But I can say a few men I dated cheated.

2006-11-13 12:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 · 0 0

ok, i be attentive to your question says "adult adult males". yet as an excellent truthful woman I would desire to declare something. I agree alot of ladies are grimy little stay outs. yet there are some stable females out right here. Now, i'm not sure what you propose by potential of "you have cheated with them". have been they in relaitonships or you?? the two way, its no longer precise. i'm married now for 6 years and that i constantly tell my husband if ever he ought to be with somebody else, only tell me and bypass. I dont desire to be with somebody who does not desire to be with me. And an identical is going for me. If i desire to be with somebody else, i will jusy bypass away my husband. Its quite user-friendly. i dont see the clarification for dishonest. only pass on. yet besides - there are scanks and there are stable females. an identical for adult adult males - precise?? stable adult adult males and scum!!

2016-12-10 08:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by hume 4 · 0 0

Because they are under the delusion that their current lover is inadequette. Instead of trying to spice things up with this one...they look for another. Or they just want missionary sex all the time with no imagination..and assume it's his fault she isn't satisfied. The biggest reason I think is men don't give them enough attention when they NEED it...they only want it when they need it....not when you do.

2006-11-13 12:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0 1

first of all women dont cheat on guys all the time its the guys that treat us like we're **** and try to act like everything is all good..And second of all maybe YOUR girlfriend cheated on you and u look at it as EVERY girl cheats on their guy but thats not the case guys cheat on gurls and accuse US of cheating all the time and we fall for all of there dumb *** lies when they say they love us or whatever thats SOME BS..but im just letting you know that u should've rephrased that subject because men are dogs and MEN cheat and if the'r not cheating then their thinkin about cheating

2006-11-13 12:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by An-Drizzle 1 · 0 2

Sad to say this has been a problem for thousands of years.
Lack of love and mutual respect increases the desire to abandon your lover for someone else.

2006-11-13 12:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0 0

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