Plz help....my boyfriend and i are in a fight rite now. Well its not really a fight but we're kinda slowly breaking up. I like him and he likes me but he always think I don't like him anymore. He doesn't talk to me anymore and I still REALLY do like him!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 12:14:21 · 10 answers · asked by gigglegeek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words my dear. SHOW him you like him, show him you mean it. I dont know if that means **** his brains out, buy him nice present, take him to see the world or just touch on the thing he loves the most, but make him react to the way you like him.
2006-11-13 12:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's got insecurity issues- maybe you should start showing him rather than just telling him if you really like him. For example, make him lunch or dinner as a surprise and show more affection. For example when you guys are together and he gets distracted leave him a quick little note telling him you miss him etc. Or surprise him with a kiss when he least expects it. Or call him and tell him you're just calling him to wish him a good day and that you were thinking about him...get creative.
2006-11-13 12:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This goes to the two of you Couples..
If you are thinking about leaving your relationship, first think about your own intent. Are you open to learning about your feelings, beliefs and behavior? Or, are you devoted to protecting against pain with anger, withdrawal, resistance or caretaking? Are you avoiding your feelings with substances and activities, or are you opening to learning from your feelings and exploring yourself with a process such as the Inner Bonding process that we teach? The first thing you need to do is deal with your own intent.
Once you are open to learning for a number of months, and really doing your inner work, then re-evaluate your relationship. Has anything changed? Is your partner more or less open to you? Are you talking more and fighting or withdrawing less?
Best of luck, Tell him you really don't want to let go of him, that you will do anything there is to stay together.
Take Care.
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P.S. Go out more too, is healthy in a relationship.
2006-11-13 12:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Candy_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear the word like but not love now maybe that could be the problem and if so you both need to let go and find love if not you will soon be hating each other. communication is the key to all relationship without that and trust you have nothing talk or get away this doesnt sound healty ib know this isnt what you wanted to hear but its what you needed to hear from experience..
2006-11-13 12:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him more. Maybe go on a date.
2006-11-13 12:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to grow up, this will always be a problem for your relationship, i say move on
2006-11-13 12:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to dump you easily by saying he doesn' think you like him.
2006-11-13 12:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go while you both still like each other. If your meant to be it will happen.
2006-11-13 12:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plese talk to direct him and solve it
2006-11-13 12:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much you like him
2006-11-13 12:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by Italyfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋