They say they will call you back but don't
If you're not going to call me back say so and don't make up a lie as to why you can't talk now.
2006-11-13 12:17:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually yes, I am generally the one to call back?
2006-11-13 12:21:58 · update #1
Sometimes I think someone is mad at me because they won't answer when I call there phone even when I leave a message.
2006-11-13 12:24:46 · update #2
In all honesty we are so use to guys doing it that we never knew that it would actually bother you if we did it. She might be doing it for the same reasons guys do it "she does not want to hurt your feelings".
2006-11-13 12:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd just like to say, please ignore those guys who are saying to have as many girls going at a time as you can - that's just stupid. That will come back and bite you in the *** many times over! Don't turn into a sleazebag!
Anyway, it's just one of the unfortunate aspects of the dating game - guys do it a lot too. Us girls will sit by the phone waiting for hours for a guy to call and often it never happens, even after a two year r/ship with them!! I guess the point is that yes sometimes they're just trying to save you an 'i'm not interested' talk so although it's annoying and frustrating, they're actually probably just trying to be as nice as possible. Just take it slow, have a good chat and make sure there's some chemistry there before swapping numbers - she's more likely to be interested in you if you're interested in what she has to say as well as how she looks (not saying you're not, its just common these days).
2006-11-13 20:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by BluLettice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just women who say it and don't do it Guys do it also.. I personally think its rude. So, here's a suggestion: if someone ever says it to you again...Them: I'll call you right back...You: When? Them:what? You: you siad you'd call me right back I want to know when, I don't have caller I D and I'm going to keep the line open for you...That way when / if they don't call you acknowledge they're rude & a loser and you make new freinds...
2006-11-13 20:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is just a nice way of saying that she is not interested in you. Take it as a lesson in life. It probably won't be the last time it happens.
2006-11-13 20:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human of the female specie just want to be civil . So from now on...try to read between the lines.
2006-11-13 20:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To finish the conversation they take your phone # to let you know you are done finished - they don't call you.
Any lie is better then call with no interest for you to even talk.
2006-11-13 20:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to hear a girl say, "you are a loser and I don't want to talk to you"? Just be glad she doesn't call instead of telling the truth.
2006-11-13 20:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ben; you have learned a valuable lesson. You have to do the calling. No matter if they say it, they don't like to call the man.
2006-11-13 20:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Women are never direct. I recommend that you have as many woman on the go at once. If one is like this, move to the next.
2006-11-13 20:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by John Archer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Ben, it is the polite way women dump your azz. Accept and move on.
2006-11-13 20:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋