my boyfriend and his and 1 of his sis are very close. she lives oversaea,but came to visit us recently. i never had a problem with her becuz i never met her,but for the two mnths she stayed with us my boyfriend ignored me. i understand they haven't seen each other in 3yrs and she help take care of him when they mom died. the thing that scare me is when she comes to live in new york since he is fileing for her, we might break up because i will not me able to bare it if he ignores me again.
2006-11-13 12:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you even trying to apart of what they are doing?
Do you join in on their conversations?
Do you hang out with them?
Maybe you and his sister should have a day where you hang out and get to know each other since she is a big part of his life you should at least try.
If you are trying, then you should let your boyfriend know that you feel a little abandoned when she is around. But you can't expect ALL of his attention. That is selfish.
2006-11-13 12:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Alex The Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it is his sister and not someone he met online and they have cooked up the story about the sister , brother act?
If he ignores you again, dump him. If he is doing what i think he is, he is a dog. Good luck
2006-11-13 20:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by shyone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him and confront him. Let him know how you feel, if he keeps acting that way, then I think it's time to move on and find yourself a new boyfriend.
2006-11-13 20:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you've got to tell him how you feel. Maybe if they see each other more it will die down. Family is important.
2006-11-13 20:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by smittn.kitten 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and tht if he cant understand that u wann be with him.. then u will hvae to move on
2006-11-13 20:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your concerns, and then let happen what happens.
2006-11-13 20:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him you to good for him
2006-11-13 20:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by A P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-11-13 20:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋