Im dating a guy and I was wondering what type of game is he playing if he keeps telling me He thinks im too good for him and that he wants me to find happiness with someone else. And he tells me bad things about himself like he thinks hes ugly on the inside. But then when I tell him ok fine I'll find somebody else he says he doesnt want to stop seeing me. WHAT KINDA GAMES IS HE PLAYING?
2006-11-13 12:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, its probably not a game. Some guys don't have the confidence to date very attracive women (assuming you are one). Just tell him if he keeps telling you that you are too good then you start to believe it. Do you really want to be with a man who has to have his ego stroked all the time?
2006-11-13 12:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like you anymore, or he thinks you are too good for him. Maybe he feels insecure or his self-esteem is really low. If you love him, tell him you don't mind that. Maybe he is not playing games but want to confront the truth with you. Ask him why he keeps saying that to you, and ask him if he is willing to be commited into the relationship if you like him in return, if not, maybe it's time to move on and find yourself a new guy.
2006-11-13 12:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an inferiority complex which will end up with him doing something, or someone, to hurt you. Let him go dear. Tell him fine, you will find someone else. And if he feels growing up and resolving his problems then he may come back. But don't let him play you. Cut cleanly. Otherwise the wounds can fester for a long, long time.
2006-11-13 12:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by nimkiw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a few issues that you might not want to deal with the rest of your life if you plan to spend it with him. He might need to see a counselor if he feels like you are to good for him and he thinks that he is ugly on the inside. Find a new man!
2006-11-13 12:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be telling you the truth! I imagine that Charles Manson and many other dangerous people have said similar things to those they were close to. In any event I would tread carefully and stay emotionally distant. It can be difficult to be a friend to someone who may be emotionally or mentally unhealthy. Sometimes these people need help we are not qualified to give...
2006-11-13 13:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only playing mind games with you. So I strongly recommend you dump him like the piece of trash he is, and find a good man who will treat you with the respect you so surely deserve.
2006-11-13 12:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lacks self confidence. he needs to be told he is great so he can feel good about himself. its called "fishing for a compliment". he just wants to hear good things about himself bacause he cant think of any himself. its like when annorexic girls say, "im so fat" they juust want people to say, "no your realyl skinny and pretty!"
i used to do the same thing he is doing. then i got self confidence, character, slef respect, and a little cocky. but really, tell him to stop.
2006-11-13 12:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion is that he is wanting a pity party......He wants you to go off on him on how wonderful he is and that you would never leave him......So has a very bad perception of himself....He just wants reassurance.... I think you should leave him.....I'm sure that he is a very jealous person , that he doesn't trust you neither.
2006-11-13 12:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either has major self-image and self-esteem issues, or...he's feeling guilty about having something shady going on and is trying to relieve his guilt by telling you such things.
Not good in either case, and you may want to take his advice.
2006-11-13 12:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by DokRok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the "I want to have my cake and eat it too" game. You couldn't figure that out?
2006-11-13 12:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋