Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

I met my wife when she was 14 and i was 16 we have been together since. I am now 23 and she is 20(almost 21) we now have a son which is 3. I just got out of the military(no deployments) we lived far away from famliy though. Now since we got back 5 months ago whe have been arguing. I am admitting I have been controlling and need some work. It is my fault she left I do blame myself. But now how do I get her back. She told me on monday that i had changed everything she asked and that she still wasn't happy. She is now gone and is getting an apartment(less than a week) I can hear the hostility in her voice when i talk to her. What do I do to get her back and make this right.
1. There is absolutely no other guy
2. Married for 3 years w/ one son
3. I know she loves me deep down inside

Is Six months(the lease on the apartment) too long to wait to get her back?

2006-11-12 06:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Justin N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 06:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd just like eveyone's suggestions for girfts that say "I Love you." It can be DIY...or whatever. thanks.

2006-11-12 06:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by BlondeQT 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have hugged.....one.....hmm....ya, just one.
What about you??

Have an AWESOME day!!! ;-)

2006-11-12 06:16:40 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Friends

2006-11-12 06:16:37 · 16 answers · asked by Brenno 6 in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for almost 11 months from work now and we began dating like 3 months ago. He's a single parent with one little girl. He tells me he really cares for me and he want us to take it one day as a time because he knows he has messed up with others in the past and he wants to do it right this time. I know he is busy with work and his family and taking care of his girl, but I just want to spend time with him, is that wrong? He told me he will find some way to make it work between me and him. But sometimes when I called him, he will take a while to call back and sometimes I feel like he doesn't care, which I did tell him that and he told me that he does really care. I just need some reassurance. He is in his 20's. Is there something wrong with me? Am I wanting too much from him? What should I do? I don't want to make him feel like I'm always nagging him. I guess I just want some more attention from him. Please help me out.

pls no pervert ans. I would like sincere advice

2006-11-12 06:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by Looking4Answers 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering!
guys opinion wanted!

2006-11-12 06:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by Kate B 1 in Singles & Dating

We're both 16, go to the same school, been friends for about 3 months and I want more. I'm 50/50 as to whether she feels the same and I was just wondering if there was any way of asking her out/telling her my feelings that would make it more likely that she'll say yes?

2006-11-12 06:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1 in Singles & Dating

who's idea was it? what do (did) you like about role playing with your paramour?

2006-11-12 06:15:42 · 3 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:15:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If there is a situation then so many women will not get a man. If it comes to that stage. Will it be okay for a man to have more than one wife.

The major religions also say that. Christianity, Judaism and Islam.

What do the women think of this?

2006-11-12 06:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm starting to believe that Men are looking for Sex and Women are looking for Love so we'll always be looking for different things.

If this is true, is evey relationship doomed to fail eventually?

2006-11-12 06:14:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for ten months I loved him and I still do but he makes things so hard. He left me to go out with this other girl who is two years older than me and she graduated when I was a freshmen. Anyway I tried to be her friend but she rub the fact that she got my ex in my face. I want to be friends with my ex because part of me will always love him and I would like to be friends with his new girlfriend but I really don't know if i can or how to start. I need some advice please?

2006-11-12 06:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Casandra 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm single for 2,5 years. Everytime I try to find a girlfriend everything goes wrong. This must be my 6th or 7th failed try. I'm doing dance classes and I like a girl. When I dance with her and I see how she looks at me I bet that she likes me... she has that look... plus that she likes dancing with me. But when the class ends she avoids me telling me that we will see each other the next time... today for example she said that she must leave to see someone.. I want to talk with her.. but not a chance. A few weeks ago I asked her out and she didn't said yes but she didn't said no. Then, once we met on the street and she kissed me on the cheeks- I thought she likes me... is it just my imagination? I don't know what to do... I know she is single... I wish I could talk with her more... but if she avoids me... Shall I stop going to these dance classes and try to forget her? Please help me. I'm getting really depressed... I thought love finally came to me... I'm just stupid?

2006-11-12 06:13:42 · 5 answers · asked by europe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The situation is:
I have been staying the night pretty consistently for about two months now but I do rent a house of which my roommate has been staying by himself. Yes, I do have a male roommate but he is a hairy software engineer who walks around with his shirt off and grosses me out. (won't even sit on his couch! ). Anyhow, my boyfriend needs a roommate because he needs help with his mortgage. I am moving into a different place on Dec. 1st and will have two male roommates - one of which is gay and never home and the other has been with his girl for 4 years and works, goes to the gym and goes to his girls condo a lot of the time. My boyfriend's friend knows two girls that are losing their place and he gave my boyfriend their number to call. My boyfriend just turned 29 and I am 24 (as are the two girls he wants to move in). Pretty much it's that I'm moving out so that two young attractive girls can move in with him. He knows it bothers me but thinks I'm irrational about it.

2006-11-12 06:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by tracimelbfl 1 in Singles & Dating

This new bf keeps asking me what it feels like to wear certain things women wear. I think he is asking because he is interested in wearing them himself. Your thoughts? Would you ask him directly? Would you let him try them on?

2006-11-12 06:13:04 · 5 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Singles & Dating

my divorce is almost over but I have talked to few guys and gone out with friends trying to get back out on to the dateing thing really just looking because not in a rush to settle down again thats where I messed up was getting in a rush to find somone but really tryin' to move on cause my ex moved on after me being gone 3 weeks....but anyway help figure out my problem just to go out and have fun with someone.

2006-11-12 06:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by April 1 in Singles & Dating

I think he likes me but I'm not sure I heard that as long as your reasonably attractive that most guys will induldge and take off their clothes Is it true?

2006-11-12 06:12:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is always someone out there giving dating websites for no reason and if u are of them please stop cause its annoying

2006-11-12 06:09:55 · 13 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend seems to have decided to move on...however she has not conveyed this to me in person.Is it not my right to know the reasons?After all i am the other side of the coin

2006-11-12 06:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by faaltoonr1 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister cried when they kept treasing her about her hair style and when her suppose to be friend accused her for taking sides with her other friend because they don't like each other and she tells me about it but I have a hard time telling her
what she should do I want to comfort her and tell her good things to help her but I can't cuz I don't know what to say CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-12 06:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by x3 2 in Family

2006-11-12 06:08:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

YES YOU WERE RIGHT THE ONE WHO HELPED ME WITH MY QUEST., MY MOM HAS DATED BLACK MEN BEFORE BUT SHE DONT LIKE THE DIFFERENCE OF LIFE, THE MUSIC THE WAY SHE SEES SOME BLACK PEOPLE ACT, BUT YET SHE WILL COME BACK AND SAY THERE IS WHITE TRASH JUST LIKE THERE IS BLACK TRASH! WHEN I COME HOME TO VISIT THEY WANT TO MAKE JOKES ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE, WE HAVE AND WILL 4 THE REST OF OUR LIVES DEAL WITH THE LOOKS AND THE TALK BUT WE CAN HANDLE IT, IT REALLY DONT BOTHER US, BUT I JUST WISH MY FAMILY WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW HIM FOR WHO HE IS. BUT I'M WILLING TO DEAL WITH THAT TO BECAUSE EVENTUALLY THEY WILL MISS ME

2006-11-12 06:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just a financial idea

2006-11-12 06:07:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 06:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

physical-health/body/youth

mental-personality/sense of humor/intelligence


and what combination of the two would you like percent wise {and remember your percents have to add up two a hundred}

2006-11-12 06:05:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have just arrived back from a weekend caravaning trip to stratford upon avon, with another couple, they are wonderful people but suffer from flatulence, how do we tell them they stink without offending them?

2006-11-12 06:04:39 · 11 answers · asked by warthog 2 in Friends

she's really down right now.. boy problems.. im trying to comfort her the best i can and to think that i have boy problems on my own too.. what bothers me is that she's turning to cigs for comfort. she's starting to be like this chain smoker and it scares me..

what should i do??

2006-11-12 06:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by lostandconfused 2 in Family

i am in S.A its 21:00 hrs and raining like mad , where are you and what's the weather like ? ( showing my friend how q&a works)

2006-11-12 06:04:21 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Imagine every month feeling so angry at everything that your on the edge of rage, you dont want to talk, or do anything and anything that anyone does sets you over the edge....In fact everything your husband says gets you mad and everything he doest say keeps you mad...

What can a man do when everything he does and doesn't do sets you off?

2006-11-12 06:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce