My Friends Calls My Sister Sensitive Because She Crys Alot When She Feels Bad What Should I Do?

Question

My sister cried when they kept treasing her about her hair style and when her suppose to be friend accused her for taking sides with her other friend because they don't like each other and she tells me about it but I have a hard time telling her
what she should do I want to comfort her and tell her good things to help her but I can't cuz I don't know what to say CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Your sister has found a crowd of friends that have dubed her the easy target to pick on. Its natural to cry when your feelings are hurt, its the way she handles it. what you need to do is talk to her and resure, it will get better in the end. Middle school/high school w/e she is in, is not what real life is like. They are going to either be the best years of her life and she is going to love it or she is going to hate it w/ a passion. People go through so many changes at a young age. Friends come and go so quickly, so all i have to say, is she doesnt need to take to much offence to the words from these "friends"... if she shows them no reaction and goes along w/ the teasing, they will probably stop. Or she could just drop them like a bad habit :) a bit easier. Like i said, friends come and go, she will easly find more.

Answer 2

Some people are just more sensitive than others, I think I'd try to help her get over letting what others say about get her down. She is an individual and has a right to be herself...it is an unhappy life letting others get under your skin I used to be that way until I decided I'd had enough. Maybe you can teach her how you handle these situations and always give her your support. She is blessed to have a sister like you!

Answer 3

I know how you feel. My sister is 2 years older than me. She is sensitive too and cries a lot at school when she gets a bad grade, people tease her, ect. When I come home from school I sit down with my sister and I listen to her talk out what happened. I give her my ideas on how to tell the person to leave her alone, how to bump up her grade, to get out of a bad friendship if it's making her lose sleep over it and making her cry about it everyday at school, ect. The important thing to remember is to know that she (your sister) is sensitive to certain things that people say or do, therefore you've gotta talk soft to her and tell her things to help her know what to do next time she is stuck in a situation like that. She needs to also learn how to defend herself and tell herself it's OK to be sensitive and it's OK to cry-but don't let people make fun of her b/c of it.
When you're around her and you see/hear people making fun of her or saying rude stuff to her, stand up for your sister.

Good luck, I hope I helped!

Answer 4

I think you you should tell her to be strong. Tell that she should not let anyone put her down every if she does not want to listen. I think her friend who accused her should not be in her business. If she want to talk to the other friend that it good, but if the other friend has a problem with that then she is really not a friend. You need to tell your sister that her hair looks great and the people are who are teasing her are just jealous.

Answer 5

You need to love your sister with all your heart, which it sounds like you do, but you also need to be honest with her. If your sister cries at the drop of a hat, per say, then you need to get to the root issues. In other words, what is truly making her feel this way and why. Just remember that tears are a good thing, they are meant for cleansing. I mean there are a lot of sad things that happen today in our society and I find myself wanting to cry for various reasons. It always makes me feel so much better and I always try to remember that JESUS WEPT too!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

First, are you the older one? STEP UP!!!!! Why on earth are you letting other people, esp. your own friends pick on her? Next time, stand in their way. Be there! Tell them to SHUT UP!!! There's nothing wrong with your sister. And you know it. They have problems.

From, An Older Sister.

Answer 7

Teach her how to toughen up. Like when someone teases her about her hair tell her to say, I'd rather have my hair than your nose. She needs to learn how to come back at them. You might also tell her taking sides with friends will only lose her friends. If 2 of her friends are fighting she should tell them they need to work it out and leave her out of it but that she hopes they both work it out because she likes them both.

Answer 8

I also was very sensitive when I was younger. Thank goodness my evil sister didn't have friends. Give her a hug and tell her it is okay. I would have to tell my friends to lay off my sister.

Answer 9

that sounds like me.. i cry a lot and it always makes me feel better when someone just would listen to me when im upset and if you don't know the right words to say just give her a hug and tell her u care about her and try to understand why she gets upset

Answer 10

Sometimes we have to learn to get a tough skin!!! I work at the front desk at my job, the first be that people see...I smile and be courteous,which is my job....but people can be nasty at times...I have learend to stay calm but it is not easy.....Sounds like your sister cares a lot about people,also, she lets people get to her...not good...people like to get a response out of you...
Tell her to be strong,speak up but don't be nasty about it....she needs to let them know how she feels...if it does not stop then she needs to leave them alone!!!!!!!!!!!!