I'm single for 2,5 years. Everytime I try to find a girlfriend everything goes wrong. This must be my 6th or 7th failed try. I'm doing dance classes and I like a girl. When I dance with her and I see how she looks at me I bet that she likes me... she has that look... plus that she likes dancing with me. But when the class ends she avoids me telling me that we will see each other the next time... today for example she said that she must leave to see someone.. I want to talk with her.. but not a chance. A few weeks ago I asked her out and she didn't said yes but she didn't said no. Then, once we met on the street and she kissed me on the cheeks- I thought she likes me... is it just my imagination? I don't know what to do... I know she is single... I wish I could talk with her more... but if she avoids me... Shall I stop going to these dance classes and try to forget her? Please help me. I'm getting really depressed... I thought love finally came to me... I'm just stupid?
2006-11-12 06:13:42 · 5 answers · asked by europe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not stupid. In some cases you have to play hard. No# one is try not to seem desperate and overly eager. You don't want to scare her away. To get to know her true feelings is number 1. Pretend to not be that interested in her. Not spend so much time with her when you are around her. Get to know other people in the class. Mingle. In a way us girls always talk about meeting sweet sincere guys who are not players. You have an excellent chance of meeting the right girl. Sometimes we are drawn to chasing the quy. Leave some mystery about yourself. Appear to be preoccupied. Make it a little game. It will be fun!!!
Beleive me. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-12 06:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a universal truth: you create what you defend against.
You're defending against being lonely and unloved... and yet you are creating the situation where it will happen.
Step one? Take a deep breath. Relax. I can tell from your question that you are oozing anxiety. Would you want to date someone like that?
Step two? Keep going to dance class. Every time you feel yourself starting to obsess about this girl, snap a little rubber band around your wrist. And... find another type of class you'd like to take. Keep yourself busy.
Last step? Know that love will come to you. You're not stupid. You're afraid. Keep the focus on you. Try to become the best person you can be and I guarantee you, love will find you.
Now, relax and smile.
2006-11-12 06:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up before the miracle happens .
Hang in there .
2006-11-12 07:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to hard, if it's meant to be you will know it.
2006-11-12 06:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take me wrong, you can mail me i'll suggest you thanks
2006-11-12 06:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by thats g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋