YES YOU WERE RIGHT THE ONE WHO HELPED ME WITH MY QUEST., MY MOM HAS DATED BLACK MEN BEFORE BUT SHE DONT LIKE THE DIFFERENCE OF LIFE, THE MUSIC THE WAY SHE SEES SOME BLACK PEOPLE ACT, BUT YET SHE WILL COME BACK AND SAY THERE IS WHITE TRASH JUST LIKE THERE IS BLACK TRASH! WHEN I COME HOME TO VISIT THEY WANT TO MAKE JOKES ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE, WE HAVE AND WILL 4 THE REST OF OUR LIVES DEAL WITH THE LOOKS AND THE TALK BUT WE CAN HANDLE IT, IT REALLY DONT BOTHER US, BUT I JUST WISH MY FAMILY WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW HIM FOR WHO HE IS. BUT I'M WILLING TO DEAL WITH THAT TO BECAUSE EVENTUALLY THEY WILL MISS ME
2006-11-12 06:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
who care what color you are, if you love each other screw what everyone else thinks
good luck and smile big even when it hurts
2006-11-12 06:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please use regular letters and not all in caps because your question is very hard to read.
White girl/black boy: there was a day when this was shocking and not socially acceptable. These are modern times and no one bats an eye at interracial dating or marriage anymore. If you love him give it a try but be strong.
If it is meant to be you can both work it out but there are social and cultural differences with which you will both have to deal.
2006-11-12 06:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your children will also feel the impact from both families. I'm not suggesting that it's right just a fact of life.
2006-11-12 06:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to complete your schooling and run like the wind. Your parents probably will never change, but you can make a change.
Good luck...
2006-11-12 06:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have racial problems in a black/white marriage.
Marriage is tough enough, why start off at a disadvantage..
Of course there is white trash..
Don't marry white trash....
2006-11-12 06:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, and your point is? You lost me completely! Perhaps you should be speaking with your family regarding their racist and prejudice issues. I don't see how anyone here can change their attitudes since we don't know them Good luck and God bless
2006-11-12 06:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not your mom, she had her time, now it your time you need to let your mom and rest of family know that you do not care for their racist comments, they are being unfair to you and your guy as they do not know him. Love has no boundaries or has color.
2006-11-12 06:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, irregardless of the skin color!
2006-11-12 06:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must have missed the question !
2006-11-12 06:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Follow your heart.
2006-11-12 06:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by vanityspice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋