Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

My husband and I are seperated with no chance of reconciling. His decision. I won't talk bad about her dad because of our little girl. Unfortunately he is a major hypochondriac. He's convinced he has a mysterious disease that is going to kill him. I told him he can't discuss his illnesses in front of our daughter, because he scares her. She is the true personna of "Daddy's Little Girl."

I have been given a wonderful opportunity that will give my family a better life. However, it is about 2000 miles away. I was explaining the move to our daughter & she doesn't want to leave because daddy needs her. I explained daddy has his whole family here to take care of him & he is fine. He will come visit her often & he loves her. We get to live with Granny in a house with a big yard. She can plant her own little garden. So how do I explain to a 5 yr old that Daddy will be fine & how nice will be to live in a safe area with good schools & lots of room to play.

2006-11-12 06:51:38 · 17 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Family

£40 football boots for xmas which one would you say

2006-11-12 06:51:21 · 26 answers · asked by porker animal 2 in Weddings

just wondering

2006-11-12 06:51:00 · 4 answers · asked by sk8erhjk 3 in Friends

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i have to write a short story for english and I based it on my cousins friend who died in a drinking and diving accident at nyu
its about a girl in her first year at nyu. shes an ra and works in banana republic. she has a wonderful bf who makes her promise not to drink and tells her he has a surprise for her. so she goes to the party and her bff gets drunk and forces her to get in the car. she refuses thinking of her bf zach and dosent go. later her bfff crashes into a car and kills someone and it turns out that the car she crashed into was her bf's zach who was coming down from upstate to give her surprise for their 4 year anniversey. the whole story is in a flashback starting from her at the cemetry. and i know the story is sad buti had to write it. And in the end when the flashback ends her bff asks for forgivness and she has a hard time but ends up forgiving cause she knew that zach is watching her from heaven and would have want her to do the right thing. how does it sound .

2006-11-12 06:50:46 · 6 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

And, assuming this is true, is it some kind of Karma.

2006-11-12 06:50:44 · 14 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well my friends and i thought it would be funny for one of us to act like his secret admirer so they chose me to do it. so i wrote notes and everything like that to him. i even called him. it was funny for a while but then i started to feel guilty because i have a boyfriend and i was doing this while i was going out with my boyfriend. it feels like i am cheating on him! So since i felt guilty about it i decided to reveal myself and it turns out he actually likes me and now i am not sure how to tell him the truth! so is this considered cheating on my boyfriend? and how should i tell the guy i am currently seeing somebody?

2006-11-12 06:50:41 · 14 answers · asked by skull_love 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with a white guy before and he found me quite attractive. I wonder if they are stereotyping me or are scared to ask me out or just plain not attracted to me. Any ideas?

2006-11-12 06:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by confused_gal 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by chalu chora 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 2 months since i left him.. during this time i got over him, not very easily i may add.. i've been going out with another guy but dumped him yesterday.. i dont know the feeling keeps on coming, i still love my ex.Memories are overtaking me. He hasn't called, i don't think he wants to be friends.. i might have hurt him by telling him i thought i didnt have any feelings for him anymore. Anyway he's been signing in alot on msn these days, he's tried talkin to me last time but i didnt answer, simply cause i didnt know what to say. All that he's showed me since i broke up was that he didn't care (he extremely believes in the "if u chase her, she'll run away" thing) and just came back to take his sweater (was this to see me or just get over me?)

Now i want him back, and i accept him, even though he's not perfect.. no1 is..

Right now there's this humungus red brick wall between us to i can't just call him and hope for him to take me back after 2 months.. what do u suggest

2006-11-12 06:48:01 · 14 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son father owes back support payments, my child is now twenty five and i am still waiting for balance of payment to be made, however my last appearance to to support agency i learned that, because he has younger children whom he is currently paying support to, my claim has stopped until his obligation to his younger children have be met, i do not understand why i have to wait 10 to 15 years to get my support ordered payment to start up again. Is there any way i can stop this delay? and what happens if he continues to have children? Is there anyway i can press the issues to add on interest due to the delay on his behalf, just as he would have to pay interest, late fees, on other finacial obligations.

2006-11-12 06:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by Reenell W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to be in a relationship and at the same time, when I cimmit I feel like oh my God...... whats wrong with me?

2006-11-12 06:46:08 · 12 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Singles & Dating

is your sunday as boring as mine?

2006-11-12 06:46:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was out with my cousin on a rare not out about 2 weeks ago and she told me that a month before i got married my hubby slept with someone else at a xmas party last year, I phoned up the girl in question and said that he had just told me and i wanted to know why she had done it as we were supposed to be mates!, after a while she said it was a mistake and they were both very drunk and she didnt really know me that well at the time!, then i dropped myself in it somehow by letting her know who really told me so she then denied it and said they only shared a kiss, when i got home i also asked my hubby and he also said it was just a kiss but then 10 minutes later he got a text from her saying"i told her it was just a kiss, ok". They are now both denying it, but the problem is she works with him so they see alot of each other, he told me that he hasnt seen her since! Also this girl claims to be a lesbian. She knew we had 2 kids together and were just about to get married. I am still hurting!

2006-11-12 06:45:48 · 33 answers · asked by noone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, well this is no joke and this is really hard to tell for me, so please PLEASE help me. I'm a 26 year old guy, I had a 22 gf and we split up because I moved to another country. Now something is happening to me, I feel attraction to young, preteen girls. like 14 or so. yeah yeah, I know you're probably thinking "gee, what an animal" , "F.U., pedo!!!" But thats the point, I DON'T WANT TO FEEL THIS WAY!!! It just happened!! Is it normal? Am I a pedo for liking 13 and 14 year old girls? Should I get any professional help? Please don't hate me, because this feelings are against my will and are driving me insane. I NEED to know if its normal or not. Please.

2006-11-12 06:42:47 · 20 answers · asked by BTII 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u like a girl with or without a bra? which 1 is sexier?

2006-11-12 06:42:24 · 20 answers · asked by #1 Johnny Depp Fan! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:42:16 · 33 answers · asked by BOO! 2 in Friends

2006-11-12 06:41:43 · 27 answers · asked by Ah! 5 in Singles & Dating

i posted a question stating my husband thinks i cheated on him because i didnt tell him about a few phone calls between me and an ex. i couldnt go back to put more info in, but i HAD a few texts and an email from a male who i do not have feelings for never did never will,but because they were males, i was afraid to tell my husband about it. i know i was wrong to lie to him and now he thinks i cheated beacause i lied. i never lied to him before and he knows that, when he hurt me i forgave him and worked on our relationship. i do not want to use that as an excuse to take me back, but i didnt cheat. i love him and want this to work but he will not return my calls. im afraid it really is over but i dont wat it to end because of something he thinks i did. i dont know what to do about this.he really is a great person and i didnt mean to hurt him. i never did before. does he really think i could do that? will he come back?

2006-11-12 06:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by jessie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Common guys I need more advice enable me make the best decison?

Guys, as earlier mentioned, there is this girl that asked me out to dance that I rejected. At the time of her request, she had a boyfriend. Anyways, she told me that she she had broken up with her boyfriend. I had a feeling she liked me. I liked her also. I was afraid to ask her out. After summoning courage from you guys, I did ask her out. We went out to eat. I thought we had a good time. After the dinner, I told her that I would like to do more this dinner? We hugged. End of story. My questions are:
1) should I have kissed her that same day?
2) What else should I do now?
3) She was the one who initiated the hug, b4 I reciprocated.
4) Should I wait till a week to do something again or what? please advice me. I am just a novice in this dating scene.

2006-11-12 06:41:35 · 9 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why or why not?!?

2006-11-12 06:40:52 · 5 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:40:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi,
I met somebody a month and a half ago and things were really great. We spent all our time together and he introduced me to his parents and I introduced him to mine. I really thought I loved him.

Anyway, I met somebody else and just intended to be friends with him. But than I really started to like him, last night we kissed and I don't want to tell my boyfriend. My boyfriend knows we're friends and doesn't want us to be friends. I think my boyfriend loves me but...Why do I have strong feelings for somebody else?

I don't know what to do...I don't like hiding this and cheating.There is something this other guy has that I really like and really comforts me. Part of me wants to be with him and part of me wants to be with my boyfriend. My boyfriend is already suspicious.

I see a future with my boyfriend and he wants to make our relationship work. With the other guy, there is a bigger age difference. It is something just fun that feels good.
Please, I don't know what to do!

2006-11-12 06:40:09 · 17 answers · asked by catanomicsunset 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so let's say there's this guy Eric. and he is in one of my classes. now i'm really nice to everyone, so i tried being friends with eric this year. and all of a sudden he's helping me with homework, staying after school with me, and he even gave me his phone number and said i should call him if i need more homework help. i doubt he wants anything, cuz he's always staring at me in class too, but i mean.. what does he want?? iss he judging me by my looks? he can't like me.. we're not even friends...

2006-11-12 06:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:39:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wanting to know me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and half an we decided to split up more him than me how can he be so happy i mean this is our first real fight you can say so when started ignoring me one day i didn't know what happened cause we get along an then he decided we needed a break .will splitting up make him realize what he got are is there someone else.

2006-11-12 06:39:06 · 6 answers · asked by Jluckie28 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is very old fashioned, she believes that the women should do the cooking cleaning and all that stuff so she "trains" me to be a good house wife, on top of that my mom wants me to get my degree in nursing and make a lot of money, and then on top of that she expects me to marry a rich man( or marry for money more than love). Also, she constantly gets mad at me for having a messy room i am almost 17 and she keeps talking about how I am soo messy for a teenage girl (which by the way i honestly try to clean when i have the time) also most teenagers rooms are messy. I believe she got this idea because she is from the philipiens and she had to clean and help support herself at a young age. My older brother was never really home so my parents never got to know how teenagers are. Also, my curfew is 8pm, when all my other friends have a curfew of 11pm. Please if you have any comments on how to get my mom caught up plz post!!!

2006-11-12 06:38:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out on my first date with this girl. Everything went well, i asked her if i could kiss her and she said yes and i kissed her on the lips and we huged afterwards. Do you think we are moving toward a relationship, when should i ask her out again.

2006-11-12 06:38:24 · 5 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating