It's been 2 months since i left him.. during this time i got over him, not very easily i may add.. i've been going out with another guy but dumped him yesterday.. i dont know the feeling keeps on coming, i still love my ex.Memories are overtaking me. He hasn't called, i don't think he wants to be friends.. i might have hurt him by telling him i thought i didnt have any feelings for him anymore. Anyway he's been signing in alot on msn these days, he's tried talkin to me last time but i didnt answer, simply cause i didnt know what to say. All that he's showed me since i broke up was that he didn't care (he extremely believes in the "if u chase her, she'll run away" thing) and just came back to take his sweater (was this to see me or just get over me?)
Now i want him back, and i accept him, even though he's not perfect.. no1 is..
Right now there's this humungus red brick wall between us to i can't just call him and hope for him to take me back after 2 months.. what do u suggest
2006-11-12 06:48:01 · 14 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the chemistry between us is really.................................................................................... i can't afford losing it
2006-11-12 06:49:43 · update #1
Wow this is a tough one. I'm in a similar situation in that my ex bf dumped me, but now it seems like he wants me back. We only dated for a month, and there was no sex cuz I'm saving myself for marriage. Now 8 months later I saw him on the street and he acted REALLY hapy to see me and asked me to contact him so that we do do something together. He really hurt me and I doubt that I'd contact him.
My best advice for you if you want your ex back is to show him that you REALLY DO want him back. Don't expect him to come to you, you dumped him so he's waiting for you to start it again. He doesn't wanna seem desperate. Try off slow, say hi to him on msn a few times then ask him if he wants to have coffee or see a movie and then see what happens from there. He may be happy or he may not be. Just remember that you now have to show him that you regret dumping him and that you want him back.
Good luck:)
2006-11-12 06:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the vicious cycle of being getting in a relationship, ending it, and falling in love with the ex. Look at the reasons that both relationships didn't work. I'd just leave both of them alone. There are a lot of people out there, no reason to recycle lovers. You'd be surprised at the chemistry you can have with another person. You might think that you'll never find anyone like him again, but you will and it will probably have less drama involved.
2006-11-12 14:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "I got over him, not very easily" but it's apparent throughout the rest of your post that you have not. So stop lying about that...to us or yourself.
Why'd you break up? That's a big key in deciding if you want to get back together. Will those issues still be there? If so, why wouldn't they get in the way again?
If you want to get back with him, then go talk to him...but realize he may not feel the same way, and you may just have to accept the end of this and move on.
You won't know until you try though...will you?
2006-11-12 14:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is still angry at you. It sounds like he made an effort to get in contact with you and you blew him off. This probably made him even more angry. If you told him you didn't have feelings for him and then broke up with him you will have to make the extra effort to get him back. Also make sure you are getting back together with him because you truly want to and not because you are lonely and looking for a rebound from the last person. Good Luck, I hope things go well for you.
2006-11-12 14:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think of how'd you feel if you had him back in your life? You might think you want him now, because your alone, but chances are your going do the same to him again, if you guys get back together. Its like that saying, you want something the more you cant have it. If you really care for this guy, you'll let him be and move on with his life.
2006-11-12 14:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd start having casual conversations with him on MSN and stuff so that you become friends and see how that works out. after you become friends then you can start flirting with him and all that will probably build up ur relationship with him again and after a while he'll just fall for you again like u did for him. Good luck :)
2006-11-12 14:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by aless. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation. I saw him moving on, and freaked out. I wish I never had called and told him that. I think maybe you should just let him go. I think you are afraid and want to hold onto him after your recent breakup.
2006-11-12 14:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and ask him to take you back..
That humungus red brick wall is your ego....
Talk to him, beg him, get your answer clearly...
Ask him to come over to your house or you go to his..
Seduce him....Rape him...( Guys are easy to rape )
It won't hurt any more than you are already hurting...
2006-11-12 14:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone knew, what doesn't work once, won't work twice. Also, you probably are only remembering the good times and not the bad
2006-11-12 14:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 him on msn and tell him how u feel. see what happends and tell him ull accept any and evry consequence.
2006-11-12 14:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋