Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

i've heard that when u lose ur virginity that it hurts when it stretches/lose hymem and all. but after that i heard that it feels allright? is this true?

2006-11-12 06:03:48 · 22 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Singles & Dating

We're both 16, go to the same school, been friends for about 3 months. I am 50/50 whether she likes me the same way but I'm planning to ask her out soon, how will I tell her/ask?

2006-11-12 06:03:39 · 5 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1 in Singles & Dating

even though my parents are seperated now he's always calling to see where we are and what we're doing just like be4 he can't do tht now especially with my mom! sometimes he'll make up excuses and tyr to pretend he's calling for something else. even my mom doesn't like him i don't get why she just doesn't tell him to stop. even when we used to live with him and he was at work he'd be like what are you guys doing whos in the house. one time when me and my cuz were going to our friends house whose parents he knows very well he's like why r u going? one time he made such a big deal out of it he did it to me in front of my rerlatives. he's like why cornering me always trying to put meon the spot making it an awkward moment. he's like what are you gonna do there with that evil look on his face (and no one would say anything to afraid to stand up to him he's like the scraiest peron in the world). i don't get why some ppl have to feel so powerful and and **** and always have to know everythin

2006-11-12 06:03:24 · 4 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family

I have been with my husband for two years. We don't have any children, and we both have very good stable jobs. I want to have a baby already, it feels like the right time, but he says that we can wait a little longer. I am starting to have doubts about wether he is EVER going to be ready to have kids. I love him probably more than I love myself, but this decision is really messing with my mind.

Any thoughts on how I should handle this situation?

2006-11-12 06:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by 2pretty4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need some few tips on how to french kiss & does it happen naturally once u start doing it

2006-11-12 06:02:53 · 5 answers · asked by lissa 1 in Singles & Dating

i am fallling out of love with my boyfriend.
i have been with him nearly 3 years
he loves me dearly but i know dont feel the same anymore.
i dont want to hurt him because he has helped me so much homelessness and redundancy ect.
the realationship just doesnt seem to move on in anyway. he wont move in coz i cant find full time work.
he wont get engaged.
he seems happy how it is. we do the same things all the time and im getting so bored.
i have spoke to him and it improves for a week and then it goes back to being the same.
its our aniversary in january after christmas and we met on christmas eve.

what should i do? and how would i break up with him?

2006-11-12 06:02:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feelings

2006-11-12 06:02:01 · 7 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with my girl for almost 2 years and we hardly if at all ever have sex, its starting to make me feel ugly, depressed and not feel good at all about it, its really bothering me to the point i dont know how i should feel and how i am supposed to let her know without offending her or making her feel bad about it, cause if i make her feel bad about it she wont want to have sex at all, she says time and time again how she wants to and never follows through its really starting to bug me, she get me going and expecting it and then nothing, even last night i made a romantic night, flowers candles rose petals all over bed and she came in said awwww, took the rose petals off the bed and got in and gave me a kiss and just turned on the tv. i was very disappointed and i dont know what to do or how im supposed to make this work, it is really bothering me, please give me some feed back on how you would feel and what you would say or do. thank you :)

2006-11-12 06:01:53 · 11 answers · asked by Luigi 1 in Singles & Dating

everything was going great I'm supposed to move with him to another state next year. And now i find out he was playing these games with someone on-line that he knows. like sexy talk and making plans to hook up. he swears he never hooked up. but in all the conversations he is the one starting things and when he had told me about her many months ago he had told me it was her who was making a nusiance of her self and he didn't know what to do because she is considered family. like a cousin but all the emails that he sent her was after tha dates that he had talked to me about her. he says he messed up and that he never slept with her and that its been months, more like two only, since he has comunicated with her. i'm so hurt i don't know if i should kick him out or talk to see if we can work this out. we have been dating for alittle over a year now. And i love him very much. but i already trusted another man before with a situation like this except he had slept with the girl

2006-11-12 06:01:30 · 7 answers · asked by quiet_butnot_unheard 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 06:00:44 · 19 answers · asked by soul4elkady 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a housemate who at first i thought was lovely, but over the past 9 weeks every weekend she has had a different bloke home to shag, sometimes on a weekend she has one on a friday and one on a saturday and she gets so drunk sometimes she doesnt remember their name. Iv stopped going out with her as i dont agree, how can i tell her politely shes a ****??

I know that she is not always using protection!

2006-11-12 06:00:12 · 14 answers · asked by doll 2 in Friends

2006-11-12 06:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Edward F 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at school that I used to fancy. We used to talk a lot, we had a lot in common, etc. He always seemed interested in what I had to say, and for a while, I thought that he may like me back.

But then I figured out that it was just the infatuation talking, because about two weeks ago he started going out with this girl. He even mentioned that he was going to her house after school and that he might transfer into her classes next semester, so I knew it wasn't just a rumor.

But the strangest part is that his girlfriend is one of those pretty, shallow, ditzy kinds of people. And he's not really the shallow type.

Ever since he's started going out with her, we've kind of stopped being friends. He doesn't start a conversation nearly as often as he used to. He's not really as polite, either. But whenever I'm at a distance (Across the lunch room, courtyard, blacktop, etc.) he's always looking over at me.

What's going on with him?

2006-11-12 05:59:12 · 9 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks so much everyone, I mean that....You are all right...I'm dealing with alot, lost my little girl last year easy to get caught up in sadness.. I was really given a second chance at life after recovering from a really bad drug addiction. I guess I believe in people really easily. I do want this to make me a better person....I don't want it to make me a bitter person though. I can't tell you how much it helped reading all of your answers, thank you. I think sometimes you just need to have people to reinforce what's true. I know one day, maybe next week, maybe a year from now...he will get back to me., thats how he works..and I don't know what I should respond with. I know thats thinking way far ahead, but I don't know what I would say if he contacted me tomorrow, I'm scared I wouldn't be strong enough to say the right thing, I tend to be too vulnerable at times. Seems like when you are trustworthy..you expect everyone to be trustworthy, lessons learned, just wanna smile again.

2006-11-12 05:59:08 · 4 answers · asked by Miracle 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont like him at at all... I think he is a jerk, but he thinks i like him, and i think he likes me, how do i make it clear to him i dont like him? or wat is the best way (doesnt need to b very nice) to turn him down if he asks me out?

2006-11-12 05:57:56 · 15 answers · asked by Cutie P 2 in Singles & Dating

i ran into this guy about 8 months ago and we really hit it off,i was still bitter about catching my ex cheating,he listened and understood(they r mutual friends)he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentleman,things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual friend told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who still wants me back)he called my brother(who is best friends with my ex)to apologize for spending the night with me and swore that nothing had happened.i ran into this guy about two months after that night and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.i thought of this guy ever since.I saw him again at a party 6 months later(a couple weeks ago)and when he walked in he saw me and looked away.Did he not want me there?What happened to me "killing" him?I still think about him.

2006-11-12 05:57:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl thts really gettin on my nerves one day shes friendly and nice to me and the next day shes teasin me every chance she gets
wat does dat mean?
wat should i do?

2006-11-12 05:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It is said that guys love to see pretty girls and girls love to hear from guys good complimants!

2006-11-12 05:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by znai_dianku 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I do something about it?

2006-11-12 05:57:09 · 23 answers · asked by Ridell 2 in Friends

2006-11-12 05:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Singles & Dating

i know her for about one year, i love her, and i know she kinda like me because i always find her around me, but im afraid to tell her that i love her, so i need some help please

2006-11-12 05:56:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 26 year old and 6'1 and his brithday is 9-27-80 and i want to know more about my boyfriend

2006-11-12 05:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by melissa l 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm turning 19 tomorrow (the 13th). I have a 3.8 GPA in college working on two degrees, and I even work full-time. The apartment we're living in is under my name and I let her have more than half of my paycheck for utilities, rent, and whatever else needs to be paid. The thing is, my mother is extremely controlling. She doesn't want friends calling my cell, or my even hanging out with them. Those are friends that she doesn't even know personally. Sometimes she makes suggestions and expects me to accept them or she'll get super pissed and then start yelling and/or never ends the lecture.

The other day, we were discussing careers and she said if I didn't take this and that career, she'd be super disappointed in me.

I have a boyfriend now, and if she finds out she'd start another 3-day argument until I leave him. She hasn't met him yet because she never gave him the chance to stop by our place. How can I tell her I have a BF without having her freak out?

2006-11-12 05:55:23 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

2006-11-12 05:54:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-12 05:54:20 · 2 answers · asked by pReCioUs_mE 1 in Friends

Cause my girlfriend dumped me in to a dumpster in NYC. Now I am smelling like fish on a hot sunny day. Does anyone know Tiffany Seekinpq. She is the fat ***** that pushed me in to dumpster. She is a pice of *****. Also if you guess her age you will get picked for the best answer. Good Luck

P.S. She is not hot but has a lot of cash!!!
P.S.S. She is in the age range of 20-100

2006-11-12 05:53:48 · 7 answers · asked by krazybaseballfreak 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a muslim and I like jews. Is there a story behind it

2006-11-12 05:52:54 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out yesterday, through a mutual friend, that my friend who is getting married a week from today was "in love" with me all through high school. I am 23 now. I have feelings for him and I'm wondering if I should do anything about this new information, b/f it's too late. HELP!

2006-11-12 05:52:33 · 4 answers · asked by blondgirl324 1 in Singles & Dating

I owe over £12,000 in Child support she is not getting a penny. I have not seen my daughter for over 4 months. I had an affair with this woman and lied that I was married. Why wont she leave me alone and get on with it. It is upsetting my wife and making life at home difficult to say the least . Any advice on how to get rid of her.

2006-11-12 05:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by drjulius_oladiran 1 in Family

I do my best not to upset her, but she's most of the time unhappy. We fight and then make up. I love her but I can't take it much longer. We talked about it, she says that i shouldnt upset her anymore. I think she's too spoiled. I know it's our problem and we need to talk and resolve it ourselves, but we already did that and it didn't work. Maybe some of you had experienced something like this and have some advice for me. Thanks

2006-11-12 05:50:05 · 16 answers · asked by brr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships