I have a housemate who at first i thought was lovely, but over the past 9 weeks every weekend she has had a different bloke home to shag, sometimes on a weekend she has one on a friday and one on a saturday and she gets so drunk sometimes she doesnt remember their name. Iv stopped going out with her as i dont agree, how can i tell her politely shes a ****??
I know that she is not always using protection!
2006-11-12 06:00:12 · 14 answers · asked by doll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell her how uncomfortable it makes you feel.
why dont you pull someone during the week and make really loud noises.
take the piss with noises whenever she is having sex.
2006-11-12 06:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer it's always a difficult one cos u never know what to say without putting it politely. I had a m8 like that, i just stopped hanging around with her cos i knew i was going to get a reputation. One night in the week just ask her if she would like a girly night in with you, get a chick flick and a bottle of wine, when u start getting on well, just tell her tha5t you are looking out for her best interests and explain her that it could be dangerous in bringing these men home cos anything could happen and explain that she could catch aids or anything if she carries on not using protection. if i was you, in that situation i would get rid of her because one night she could bring a dodgy bloke home and something cud happen 2 u? Good Luck hope it goes well for you
2006-11-12 14:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait untill the next lad walks in with her to the flat and drop comments like"christ thats the tenth bloke you've brought home in a fortnight!".Or "sorry i didn't catch your name it's David,sorry Paul,no emm Trevor,god i wish she wouldn't bring so many men home i get confused".Try that.
2006-11-13 14:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Timmoshanko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful when dealing with such a person, cos im going through something similar. only this time its my room mate, and even though i tolerated her, she had the guts to insult me. its better that u look out for yourself first, and try including this topic in a friendly chat. make sure that she doesnt make u feel bad for ur concerns.
2006-11-12 15:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plant some cash and maybe a 'thank you' letter on a bedside table in her room. Maybe this will shock her into thinking about what she's doing.
2006-11-12 14:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by A True Gentleman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not really anything to do with you
I wish I'd done the same before I got married.
2006-11-12 14:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldnt be too hard to tell her you could throw your views into conversation dont hold back as yr home will be labelled the hoe house
2006-11-12 14:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by cazmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her when she is sober, tell her you are worried that she is doing risky things.
Pregnancy is NOTHING compared to AIDS!!
If she won't listen, you at least have done all you can!
2006-11-12 14:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her, have a word with her about protection, otherwise its her life, she can do what she wants
2006-11-12 14:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she feels unloved and i would try to get her some counselling, she probably believes their trash. women who sleep around feel rejected get her too talk about her past.
2006-11-12 15:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋