i've heard that when u lose ur virginity that it hurts when it stretches/lose hymem and all. but after that i heard that it feels allright? is this true?
2006-11-12 06:03:48 · 22 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and are u still able to achieve an orgasm?
2006-11-12 06:10:48 · update #1
having sex for a girl the first time does hurt for a majority of girls because it breaks the hymen. but ur hymen has a good chance of already being broken, for very athletic girls, from running and stretching a lot, the hymen breaks. sometimes tampon use can break it but thats unlikely. and sometimes u r not even born with one, or u r just born with a partial one (it could have holes). but thats not the only cause of pain. just this new weird thing entering ur body hurts, and it stretches u a little because ur body has never had to fit something like this in before
and im sorry to tell u that the first few times still are not "pleasureable" but this is not the thing u should be afraid of. if u love him, than go for it if it feels right. u need to do it sometime!
2006-11-12 06:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know. I took ballet all my life and used tampons. When the special time came; I did not have any pain or bleeding. Some people do not have a hymen - the whole hymen thing is somewhat of a myth because girls today are very active and often they stretch whether with sports activities, dancing or by using tampons.
2006-11-12 14:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a few factors. Not everyone has the same thickness for a hymen and in fact not every girl has one. It would also depend on how relaxed you are when you lose it, if you were prepared, and if you are in skillful hands.
When you are a teenager, it's usually a boy who doesn't know anymore than you do and it's over before it began for you. That's just another reason to wait.
2006-11-12 14:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, if you use tampons the hymen is probably stretched or broken anyway. It's likely to be a little uncomfortable the first time but if you wait until you are absolutely sure you are ready and you are relaxed, it should be fine.
2006-11-12 14:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I lost mine, I remember thinking during the event...."THIS is what people are so crazy over?!" It was NOT a pleasant experience. It gets better, but takes a little time. Now YEARS later....it's VERY enjoyable.
2006-11-12 14:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by circa 1980 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its gonna hurt for sure for the first 2-4 times you do it (depending on the man's size of course), but it may feel good at the same time.
2006-11-12 14:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls have a hymen, some are born without them and they hymen can be broken in other ways like bicycling.
It hurts because your vagina isn't used to having large things pushed inside...at least I hope not. If you're naturally or unnaturally lubricated enough and if he goes slow enough, it won't be so bad.
2006-11-12 14:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hear it hurts a bit initally, like when it first goes in because your body isn't used to that...but i hear it's most like a discomfort as opposed to being in alot of pain. andddd it's only temporary. but everyone i know thats had their first time said it sucked..but eventually it gets better.
2006-11-12 14:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it varies for everyone but I think most woman experience some discomfort the first time - also you are likely to bleed the first time you have sex but it is natural and nothing to worry about.
2006-11-12 14:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true as can be , hurts for the first while , little bleeding and then you're hooked on the feeling.
2006-11-12 14:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋