I dont like him at at all... I think he is a jerk, but he thinks i like him, and i think he likes me, how do i make it clear to him i dont like him? or wat is the best way (doesnt need to b very nice) to turn him down if he asks me out?
2006-11-12 05:57:56 · 15 answers · asked by Cutie P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three simple words "I am gay"
2006-11-12 06:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what i found on the net it is pretty good
Here's the bottom line: Look the guy directly in the eye and say, "I think that you're really an attractive guy and I'm really flattered that you would want to go out with me. But you're just not my type."
The trick is to be sincere. It's not hard: take a look at people around you. First, who are YOU attracted to? Second, who do you think is attractive? I'd be willing to bet they aren't exactly the same people. Everybody has certain TYPES of people they're attracted to. (Using myself as an example, I think most movie stars are attractive, but I'm attracted to very few of them. And I often find myself attracted to guys who most people wouldn't find attractive at all.)
To further my point, you rarely see somebody so homely that no-one is attracted to them. It seems like there's always someone who finds them attractive.
There's nothing wrong with telling somebody you don't find attractive that they ARE attractive. It's all subjective, anyway, and it hurts like hell to be told you're not attractive--you don't want to do that to anybody.
Even at that, there's still a pretty good chance you're going to hurt somebody's feelings, maybe even tick them off. But that's where they have to take responsibility for their own feelings.
2006-11-12 14:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to other girls' advice on this matter. Ask guys - generally if you're straight with them without being mean, or too brief, then they'll accept it even if they don't want to. Give at least one (true) reason, or they'll keep asking you "Why". Don't go into too much detail though. Don't just say "Not interested", and do not do it over the phone or on MSN.
2006-11-12 14:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by davidbrookesuk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he asks u out, say no.If he liks u and u find out but he dont ask u out, get a boyfriend, or make up some1 from a different school.
2006-11-12 14:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by girliegirl4444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not interested and walk away. you don't need to be really mean but if you are to nice he might think you are just shy and
DO like him.
2006-11-12 13:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by sugercoolcows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk, of course he would think you like him, tell him to take a hike.
2006-11-12 14:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something along the lines of 'I think we aren't really compatible..i mean, i don't know if i have feelings for you in that way..thank you for asking though..i'm glad you considered me.' then walk away quickly...before he tries to retort and say something to convince you.
2006-11-12 14:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When and if he asks you out, you just simply tell him no thank you, I am not interested. God bless
2006-11-12 14:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the **** away from me i dont like you!!!!!!
make it clear loud and simple so he has no way to twist it
2006-11-12 14:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Megan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't think it would work. You just don't have them kind of feelings for him.
2006-11-12 14:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by AG3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like someone else and your not interested in him
2006-11-12 13:59:46 · answer #11 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋