what do u do? my dad is such a control freak?

Question

even though my parents are seperated now he's always calling to see where we are and what we're doing just like be4 he can't do tht now especially with my mom! sometimes he'll make up excuses and tyr to pretend he's calling for something else. even my mom doesn't like him i don't get why she just doesn't tell him to stop. even when we used to live with him and he was at work he'd be like what are you guys doing whos in the house. one time when me and my cuz were going to our friends house whose parents he knows very well he's like why r u going? one time he made such a big deal out of it he did it to me in front of my rerlatives. he's like why cornering me always trying to put meon the spot making it an awkward moment. he's like what are you gonna do there with that evil look on his face (and no one would say anything to afraid to stand up to him he's like the scraiest peron in the world). i don't get why some ppl have to feel so powerful and and **** and always have to know everythin

Answer 1

Wow, what you call controlling others would call a concerned father. You could have had mine -- he disappeared after my parents divorced. Be thankful he cares about you.

Answer 2

oh my gee, im in the same situation, but my dad and mom have like restraining orders against each other so they cant bother each other, so they both ask me how i am at the others house and stuff! uh its horrible i know, but just stand up to him, tell him that you are fine and you have been raised right you know what to do, and that he doesnt always have to know everything, that usually works for my dad, well sometimes. good luck!

Answer 3

You're a minor and he's your dad. He is doing his job by asking you these things.

Grow the heck up and maybe he'll stop.

Answer 4

Try to ingore his behavior and tell your Mom how you feel maybe she can get him to stop