Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

I just so happen to be browsing around on the offender search on mi.gov and I put in an ex's name. I didnt think I was gonna see his name up there, but there it was. In jail for armed robbery. We didnt leave off on good terms but I know he doesn't have anyone else that cares enough to write him. I know I wouldn't scold him or ask "what were you thinking" or saying "I told you so" because that is the last thing anyone in jail needs to hear. Should I write him and give him encouraging words, like keep ya head up or dont drop the soap (j/k)?? but still.. If you were in jail, would you want to hear from your ex? And what encouraging words can I say?

Let me say that I am happily married to a man I've been with for 5+ years and have 2 beautiful little girls. I would not write for a relationship, I would write exactly what I said - encouraging words Please.. serious answers only

2006-11-12 05:48:34 · 17 answers · asked by A.J. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've dated before about 102 dayz ago...But like he knows I love him...But he loves his girlfriend...&& he told me he liked me alot still...But that's it...HELP ME!?!?

2006-11-12 05:48:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that I have a huge crush on. It only began this year, but we've become pretty good friends. In the mornings befre school, he and my other friend sit in the cafeteria and chat. He always teases me about everything, and seeks me out to sit by at pep rallies. Though he has many friend girls, I know for a fact he doesn't like any of them. I detect signs of us flirting, my friends have told me also. But then sometimes when he is with his own firneds, I'm not even on his radar. So what's up? I feel he likes me sometimes, and at other ttimes I think I'm just a friend to him. One time he told me that she told a guy who called me weird to shut up. He seems to look at me differently though, so I feel he does have feelings for me. He always makes a point of speaking at school usually. Or I do if he doesn't. So, I'm totally lost. He has a nickname for me, and trys to intentionally annoy me. I feel he likes me most of the time, but then again, could he really just think us bfs?

2006-11-12 05:47:30 · 4 answers · asked by lollipopstars29 1 in Singles & Dating

times, like when I tried to introduce myself before to be polite she just stared at me like I was a piece of ****?

2006-11-12 05:46:14 · 3 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if it's like this in all communities or if it's just mine but it seems like there is a lot more single and readily waiting to be dated ladies out in the summer than in the winter. Do you guys see this happening in your area?

2006-11-12 05:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by TravisButtaz 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
Couple of weeks back my friend said 'She needed some more time alone and will get back to me if its is ok with me'.She added she is looking forward to talk to me soon.
But on the hindsight, when we came across somewhere in the office, she was more than happy to ignore me!!!!

What do i make of this?can i trust her or is this signs of things going bad?I didn't ask her how much time she wanted.In fact i asked her to take her own time.Do u think i should have asked her how long she wants?do u think i should do it now or wait for her to get back?

This waiting game is really getting on my nerves.I really respect her privacy but there has to be limits.Even if she wants to move on is it not better to discuss this one on one and amicably close this?What say girls?...btw she is 34 and divorced once...i expect her to be mature...

2006-11-12 05:44:26 · 2 answers · asked by faaltoonr1 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and its kinda obvious he likes me but i figured that since ive given him plenty of time to talk to me that i should just go ahead and talk to him but i dont know what to say. HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-12 05:44:09 · 6 answers · asked by Megan L 2 in Singles & Dating

if u have sex like today without using the rubber and like a a week after u feel a lilttle wied that u might be pregnant.what kind of signs can u get that u pregnant

2006-11-12 05:44:07 · 1 answers · asked by v 3 in Singles & Dating

friend of mine, blah, blah, blah....she will say.."what friend?",...i will just repeat myself...and say..."oh just a friend"....then in another conversation, I will say ..."I heard blah, blah, blah,"..she will say "where did you hear that from?"...i will start to laugh everytime she says that..."I will just say, "I just heard it"....what is wrong with her????............she finally said..."why won't you tell me?"...now mind you this is a grown woman...."I just say..."i'd rather not say"....i have tried my best to be as NICE AS POSSIBLE...BUT SHE DOESN'T GET IT OR WAS RAISED WRONG....another friend said to her..."My you are nosy!!!",,,...she just schrugged it off...and continued to try to get in your personal business!!! go figure...I FEEL I SHOULD STOP RETURNING HER CALLS...SHE IS STARTING TO STRESS ME OUT!!! WHAT WOULD YOU DO???HONEST answers only PLEASE!!! and i thank you!!!..

2006-11-12 05:42:43 · 1 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

and you know that this is the last thing you want, how do you put it in a nice way so that you don't hurt him?

2006-11-12 05:42:22 · 52 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Weddings

i asked if anyone loves starbucks and got 23 answers and before even reading them ya deleted them.

2006-11-12 05:42:04 · 8 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have lost my true love and want to get her back what do i do i love her a lot but i have hurted her as well but dont know what to do she is really cute

2006-11-12 05:40:06 · 15 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 05:39:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he's nice to me, talks to me, but hasnt asked me out. should i ask him out or just forget about it, and if you think i should, i need suggestions on how to go about it

2006-11-12 05:39:06 · 5 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Singles & Dating

She is a 14 year old girl. She buys all her cloths from yard sales, never from stores. She is really cheap. Everything is about money with her. She never lends any of her friends money, not even a quarter! She expects her friends to pay for her and also expects her friends to give her cloths! She has the money too... She has over $1000 in the bank and always is babysitting. She talks behind my back all the time. One time i confronted her and she says she goes with the flow and never sticks up for me! Shes REALLY immature. When we get into fights, she doesnt speak much and usually curls up in a corner and crys. She is really sensitive. I cant have a talk with her ever! A couple minutes later she is fine with everything like nothing happened. She cannot be left alone anywhere like the mall by herself. I cannot avoid her because shes my neighbor. What do you think? Is she a friend?

2006-11-12 05:39:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like a guy from work and i work with my sister my sister called him stuff like stupid and he get mad at me not at my sister

2006-11-12 05:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have but I got slapped in the face. I do not know if I want to do it again. Guys and girls can answer.

2006-11-12 05:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hmm...........

2006-11-12 05:36:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this amazing girl who is muslim, an dwe have a date set but I have never dated a muslim girl before, and I don't want to say or do anything that might offend her.

2006-11-12 05:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by AndevansFishing 2 in Singles & Dating

Any thoughts on when these might be in a persons life?

2006-11-12 05:34:46 · 13 answers · asked by eagledreams 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 28 yrs old and the only girl of 2 brothers. I have always felt that my dad was alot harder on me than my brothers. He is constantly belittling me and hurting my feelings. We have a twisted pattern where we get along for about a month and then he finds something to pick at me about and then I speak my mind and we won't talk for a week b/c he's mad. He treats my mom the same way- only, she puts up with it to keep the peace. I just want a good relationship with him but he makes it SO hard :( I am torn and at my end's witt. I have even contemplated cutting him out of my life for good b/c he brings nothing but grief into my life for the most part. I feel he enjoys people walking on egg shells around him. I have tried to talk to him but it does no good...what do I do??
:(
p.s. please only respond if you have thoughtful insight, this isnt a joke...

2006-11-12 05:34:44 · 14 answers · asked by Gucci Girlie 1 in Family

Been together 4 years. We have a son together. Doesn't try to understant me. Doesn't care that what he does hurts me. He doesn't think he is doing anything wrong.

2006-11-12 05:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by mcsxeback07 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this girl i fancie. we go to the same church and skool but i have no guts to talk to her. i really like her but she talks to my mates more than she does to me? i need help quick.

2006-11-12 05:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Conglomery 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm clueless how to relate to my sisters bf so I have no idea how I should write about them, how it is in real life is just too boring I tend to just say hey hows it going? things are good he says then we say nothing simnply because he's my sisters bf and well I find that kinda weird for reasons I don't get. So I need to write this charactor and he relates to me the main charactor so all ideas would help thanks!!

2006-11-12 05:33:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 05:33:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 05:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by hos_1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a freind that i was real close with but somehow we parted ways... i would really like to find her...does anyone know of any web sites?? free or cheap?

2006-11-12 05:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by stefani 2 in Friends

My just told the girl that i like i like her.... her reaction was "Really?". Does that mean she likes me? If you are a girl, would you've said that?

2006-11-12 05:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have known eachother since August, and we know that we want to get married, probably the middle of next year. I think he's going to propose officially soon. Just looking for some opinions- are we moving too fast?

2006-11-12 05:29:21 · 30 answers · asked by jerimbato 2 in Weddings

It is such a difficult situation to be in.

2006-11-12 05:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating