She is a 14 year old girl. She buys all her cloths from yard sales, never from stores. She is really cheap. Everything is about money with her. She never lends any of her friends money, not even a quarter! She expects her friends to pay for her and also expects her friends to give her cloths! She has the money too... She has over $1000 in the bank and always is babysitting. She talks behind my back all the time. One time i confronted her and she says she goes with the flow and never sticks up for me! Shes REALLY immature. When we get into fights, she doesnt speak much and usually curls up in a corner and crys. She is really sensitive. I cant have a talk with her ever! A couple minutes later she is fine with everything like nothing happened. She cannot be left alone anywhere like the mall by herself. I cannot avoid her because shes my neighbor. What do you think? Is she a friend?
2006-11-12 05:39:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like she has a mental problem n i don't mean it rudley.You might want to talk to her about it n getting help.If she is talking about you behind your back then i wouldn't consider her a friend.Friends don't talk about friends behind there backs.In any friendship it should b a give n take thing with both unless they can't afford,but at least you know why she has money cuase she doesn't spend or give it.
2006-11-12 05:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one does her parents have money or are they poor? saving money isn't a bad thing it is very smart of her to do that but she should buy her own things,some yard sales have good cloths to buy i have bought $200.00 jeans for 5 bucks before.
Talking behind your back isn't good i wouldn't take that crap from no one.
not being able to leave her alone sounds like anxiety and she should talk to as doctor to get it under control.
She might also be a little depressed if she goes to the doctor and she is still like that then no i dont think she is a friend.
2006-11-12 05:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by puppyluv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have alrady answered your own question. It really sounds you dont really want too much to do with her anymore. Regardless of wether she is weird or not, you are not happy with the relationship and should probably move on. You dont have to avoid her. I would just simply, and politely tell her next time there is an unavoidable meeting "I am really sorry but I am not interested in continuing this relationship, have a good day". That is that.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 05:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddies lending one yet another funds has ended many friendships. the place her outfits come from isn't probably a topic of yours and at 14 her mothers and dads probably make that decision. She would actually haven't any funds for herself. It sounds like she lives the existence of somebody who truthfully has little or no that's previous her administration. after all for her to anticipate others to grant her with outfits or funds is inaccurate and is an occasion of the welfare mentality transforming into on the instant.
2016-10-21 23:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by itani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just wants attention and everybody to feel sorry for her
i am having that same problem and when ever i see that person i just say hi and walk by
you can avoid a person without being mean to them
ps i don't think she is a real friend because of the talking about you behind you back and if she talks about her other friends them she will soon not have any friends
2006-11-12 05:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a true friend to her you shouldn't care about where she gets her clothes from,,, accept her for who she is inside...not what she looks like on the outside! If its really that bad for you and she is wearing hideous clothes go to a yard sale with her because sometimes there are nice trendy things she can wear!! Treat her for her birthday or xmas and takin her on a shopping spree! xox
2006-11-12 05:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to control or change her. Leave her alone and enjoy her company.
At functions, tell her to pay her OWN way. She has the $
2006-11-12 05:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Trump 2020 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her parents and ask them for help and tell them that you dont want to hurt her fellings, mabey there is a reason why she is like this. Take their advice and do what they tell you to.
2006-11-12 05:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by lil_mama69smokie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. of she says stuff behind your back then quit talking to her. as for the money thing, she may just be saving up for something.
2006-11-12 05:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by maxinator01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird just different. Give her time to mature. Who knows one day she maybe your richest friend!
2006-11-12 05:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by Linda and rickey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋