i have this girl i fancie. we go to the same church and skool but i have no guts to talk to her. i really like her but she talks to my mates more than she does to me? i need help quick.
2006-11-12 05:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Conglomery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no guts not because you are a coward but because you think that she is very important to you and you try to avoid the devastating 'no'.
First understand that no one woman is really so important, whatever you feel now.
Second, understand that even if she says 'no', it is not the end of the world.
Then you just go and simply ask her out. Like you ask your close friend. No special preperations or anything.
If she says yes, just calm down. You have not won the world. Simply go and have a little fun.
If she says no, then move on.
I know it is difficult to comprehend what i am saying because you are probably too young and crazy about her. One day you ll find out yourslef the value of my advice.
2006-11-12 05:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by top_rock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see her alone go and strike up a conversation and then maybe you can slip in about going to a movie or out for pizza just something small to start off with.
2006-11-12 05:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you should tell your "mates" to ask her if she likes you, the best time to ask her out would probaly be after church, of at lunch at ur school. Good luck!~
2006-11-12 05:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
church is a good place to start, just sit by her and then after church ask her what she's doing afterwards and go from there. maybe suggest going to the mall or something.
2006-11-12 05:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best WAY to do it is to get to know her first, let her get comfortable with you, and then casually and politely ask her if she is ready to go out with you. It will take time and patience, but you will probably prevail.
2006-11-12 05:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kiely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get close to her, become her friend, when she's alone just tell you like her and ask her to lunch on saturday or whenever.
2006-11-12 05:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋