I met this amazing girl who is muslim, an dwe have a date set but I have never dated a muslim girl before, and I don't want to say or do anything that might offend her.
2006-11-12 05:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by AndevansFishing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off coming from a person who was raised as Muslim from the age of 1 to 25-I've since left the religion and converted back to the religion of my family. You have to be mindful that muslim women are very reserved and if she's wearing a hejab-traditional arab headpiece don't ask her to remove it unless she chooses to. Muslim girls depending on upbringing don't usually kiss on dates especially after the first one. Hand holding is usually out depending on the girl and her comfort level. If you have questions about the culture ask because that's the best way to learn instead of gung hoing it and you ask something that may offend her. Also you may want to date for a few months before you meet her parent(s) since devout muslims look at courtship as the gateway to marriage. As for sex I would abstain from it and ask her later on down the line how she feels towards it. One more thing you need to ask her how her family feels about her dating someone who's white and a non muslim so you're not taken by surprise by anything.
2006-11-12 05:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a few problems right here- first of all those 'Muslim ladies' fairly should not be courting in any respect without reference to who it's. Secondly, sounds as though they are having a bit of a laugh with you, however recognise that it could actually on no account be severe on account that eventually they recognise they're going to marry a Muslim. I'm no longer suggesting that it is correct for them to make use of you, however that is what feels like is going on. Lastly, I might keep off on changing for any feminine, and fairly compare whether or not you feel within the fundamental basics of Islam. If you do, then do a little study and you're going to usually observe that the loose-blending of the sexes isn't some thing that is accredited within the faith. Perhaps it is a signal from our Creator to you, consider approximately it... peace
2016-09-01 11:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by cheuvront 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Muslim and yes it is true that most traditional Muslim girls do not date and they do not date especially outside of their religion. If she does accept you..then try to be accepting of her beliefs. make sure that you are really nice to her parents and family. When it comes to the holidays like Eid-al-Fitr/Ramadan then why not celebrate with her? Muslim family's are REALLY family oriented so spend lots of time with them. and also during those times why not wear some traditional clothes? Your girlfriend will really appreciate it. Good Luck!
2006-11-12 05:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't date her because muslims aren't allowed to date she is going against her religion by dating
2006-11-12 12:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by amatullah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is religious, she would not be dating, and certainly not be dating a non-Muslim.
2006-11-12 05:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should use the same manners that you would show to any girl. What does Muslim have to do with it?
2006-11-12 05:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
DO tell her how pretty she is etc. basic compliments.
DONT talk about food. well u can but be careful because they cant eat pork and many other things.
2006-11-12 05:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all , take out the idea of having sex with her, unless you are married..
2006-11-12 05:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Luay14 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and get her drunk,don't smoke,don't touch,don't have sex,just sit and smile and ure in there ;)
2006-11-12 05:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sure. Just make sure you have converted by the time you meet her parents, or else they will kill you and take your land.
2006-11-12 05:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋