I am very frustrated with my marriage, as I feel that sex has become a duty that I am obligated to perform. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex, or at least I used to...but my husband tends to fucus our whole relationship around him being sexually satisfied. If I am not in the mood...everything turns sour. I find myself obligating him just to get him out of a bad mood, or seducing him to ensure that my day will not be difficult. Since this pattern has been going on for years, I feel that the chance of us ever having a good sex life is destroyed. In his eyes, I owe him sex, whenever he needs it, and if I was a good partner I would want it all the time..always be in the mood. There is no passion left for me, as it has become a chore. I have tried talking to him about this, but he doesn't handle conflict well, and nothing ever seems to get resolved...he will just use it against me at a later time and make everything worse. Any ideas on what I should do?
2006-11-12
06:26:25
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catywhumpass
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Marriage & Divorce