i broke up with my boy of 5 years because he won't be faithful & i love him i can stay but i chose not to, he tells me this is not going to be like this forever have patience but i left did i do the right thing if so how do i move on when i hurt so bad
2006-11-12 06:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-12 06:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. "Once a cheater always a cheater!" Don't believe him; he is a liar! Your heart could forever be broken. maybe some day his penis will be broken and he won't do it, but until then he will cheat because it is his nature. Acknowledge that you have done what is best for you. Sing with me: "You need to have a little talk with Jesus, tell him all about your troubles, He will hear your anxious cry and he will answer by and by...." Honey, sex release hormones which causes a women to become attached to a man. Sex is best saved for marriage. Tell yourself that you don't want to be attached to him anymore. You can't change him. You can only change you so start today to change yourself. Realize that God has something better for you. Tell yourself that this is a self-defeating relationship which only hurts you and believe what you are saying. Find places to go, things to do, make new friends! DO NOT HOP INTO BED WITH SOMEONE ELSE FOR REVENGE! Allow yourself time to heal once you have acknowledged the truth about him.***Let me pray: Heavenly Father, I lift up this hurting woman. I ask You to heal her and make her whole in Jesus name Amen. Praise You, Lord, Glory to You!
2006-11-12 14:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good job for doing he right thing, I give you kudos 4 that ;)
Only time will heal the sore he put through your heart,
and there's no 'fast way' to get over things, however, there are a couple of things you can do to try to get over him:
1.) Try to meet new people, go out to the latest nightclubs! be up to date.
2.) Hang out with your girlfriends, at the mall, go out on a shopping spree.
3.) Go out and do something your boyfriend wouldn't let you do- such as skydiving, bungee jumping, cut your hair, eat fast foods- anything counts!
As long as you're having fun, that's all that counts! When you're having fun, you really don't think about everything else.
Go on girl, go have some fun and don't think about that unfaithful jerk, you don't deserve to be treated like that! No one does!
Have a great day, hope my advice really works, have a EXCELLENT, SLAMMIN, GOOD, STYLIN, HAPPY, day!!!!
â¥Jazzyâ¢â¥
2006-11-12 14:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Jazzy™♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time, I am in the same boat, but he wasn't cheating. Have love and respect for yourself. I tell myself it is better to be by myself and trying to find happiness, than with my ex and still be unhappy and lonely. Life is hard and you just have to keep your head up. IF he cheats, he's not worth it. You and everyone else deserves to be loved and respected. Feel sorry for those girls too, he's doing the same thing to them. He has the problem not you, your problem is staying with him. It doesn't mean it doesn't hurt, because no one but you two know what you have in a relationship and the true feelings you've shared. Sorry and good luck.
2006-11-12 14:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up and moving on is one of the hardest things to do. First of, dont see him anymore. Dont even talk to him. Avoid him at all costs. Second, go hang out with your friends more. Maybe even take up a hobby. I've been in your same situation and I can honestly tell you that you will feel much better as time goes on.
2006-11-12 14:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing---cheaters never change.
Focus on yourself for a while. Do things yo love to do, and you'll meet a good guy that doesn't cheat on you.
Hang in there hon...he can't hurt you anymore.
2006-11-12 14:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only ime will heal the pain.
dont think of him in a ad or good wa.
ignore him because thoughts will just hurt you.
go to your friends.
sleep over nd talk with them.
have fun in your life.
you shouldn't let a guy stop your life.
get well soon ---<3
2006-11-12 14:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by HUSTLiN' Babii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya remove this guy from being your focus, set yourself some life goals and move on through personal achievements, look for someone who will treat you right but you must believe that you desreve to treated that way, so also work on your self esteem
peace and good luck
2006-11-12 14:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and have some fun.
get some of your friends and go party and forget about him,
find somebody better
2006-11-12 14:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by blondie_XxX_blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shake it off. There's plenty men out there for you!!
2006-11-12 14:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time, but you will get over him in time.
2006-11-12 14:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋