i lost contact with my son, it was a six year relationship and we had been engaged for a year, i didn't get involved with n e woman or have a relationship for a year after the breakup. I've just met a great girl but where i used to be very carefree and chilled now im always worried she's gonna cheat on me or im gonna lose her to somebody else, it's driving me crazy being so paranoid, i was never like it before, does n e body know how i could get back to the way i used to be.
question from Lisa. S boyfriend not Lisa.S
2006-11-12 06:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it easy. It seems you have been struck by the lightning of love and struck bad. But Ricochet is right, true love should be accompanied by trust. Without trust, love won't proceed further. You have also to have faith in Someone up there, the Supreme Being up there, whatever you call Him, that HE knows what is best for you and that HE will be watching over you. Pray that, this girl would be the real one for you. If she is meant for you, no matter what you do, she will be there. So go to sleep soundly, with that thought. Give her some space and trust her. Because if you don't it will destroy the relationship. If she loves you enough , (which I am sure, she does), she herself, will see to it that she stays faithful. Good luck.
2006-11-12 08:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean, 'how can I stop being paranoid and suspicious?', then I read somewhere that the basis of any good relationship is trust. You've been traumatised by the fact that someone you trusted for 6 years to stay with you could break up with you. You need to learn to trust women again, including the girl you're with now. Take control of you own thoughts. Just because one woman caused you some pain doesn't mean all women can't be trusted to remain faithful.
You say you've just met the girl. Take things slow and don't put all your hopes in this person being the next miss right.
2006-11-12 14:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by ricochet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I did not understand your question. Anyway if you want to chill out with your gf, a splendid idea would be for both of you to lie down in some cozy spot and get someone to bury you'll with a heap of ice cubes...
2006-11-12 15:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By simply releasing out of your 'crazy being so paranoid' situation.
2006-11-12 23:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tlak to your girl, and tell her all your fears. so that in future she'd know how to deal with you. as in she wont say or do anything to scare you(like tease you eve innocently)
2006-11-13 02:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is life ... enjoy the time with her dont waiste time thinking and be as you are...
2006-11-13 00:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a shower
2006-11-13 08:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by mohds o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is not clear.
2006-11-12 23:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a bath with her
2006-11-12 14:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by thats g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋