2006-11-12 06:00:44 · 19 answers · asked by soul4elkady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM SORRY TO READ YOUR QUESTION THOUGH IT IS BIG SET BACK FOR YOU BUT THE LIFE WILL BE CARRY ON EVEN WITHOUT WE LOSE OUR DEAR ONE. THE WORLD RULE CANNOT BE CHANGED ON THE DEATH A PERSON. SO I WISH YOU BEST FOR FUTURE MAY GOD GIVE COURAGE TO SELECT THE NEXT ONE.
2006-11-14 14:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to hear...it takes time tho. Hopefully you have close family and friends to help you thru...but please don't start another relationship to help you get over the hurt because it's not fair to the newcomer. Once you're all healed, the newcomer is kicked to the curb...hurt and broken. Give yourself time...cultivate interests and hobbies...Reflect on the good times and remember God is in control and He knows what's best for you.
May the spirit of the Lord comfort you during this season.
2006-11-12 14:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. It doesnt matter what anybody else says. It is what you feel and your happieness that counts. Seeing as you are asking this question (and I am guessing that you have found someone else who makes you happy) either you are concerned about what other people & friends are saying or really you are not ready to move on from your fiancee.
2006-11-12 14:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my fiancee passed away 5 years ago, I was not necessarily unwilling to date for 3 years, I was just unable to. Emotional attachment, I suppose.
Then again, my mother re-married within a month of my father's death.
Bottom line: There are different stages of grief, but there is no timeline for grief. It could be one week, one month, one year, etc. It's cliche, but you "just know" when the time has come. Different strokes for different folks.
Best of luck.
2006-11-12 14:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by waterlogged 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your heart time to heal before getting in serious relationships, you may think you're ready then you get too committed and start going through depression or thoughts of your fiance.
Good luck.
2006-11-12 15:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by agape♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give yourself a bout a year to mourn, to collect yourself, and not go on the rebound.
I am sorry that he died though.
If you went out and found someone right now, it wouldn't be fair to either one of you. You are still getting over the loss of someone very close to you. Don't rush it.
2006-11-12 14:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very next day. Your fiancee wants you to be happy. Fall in love when you're ready.
2006-11-12 14:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by gothielocks13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion between 5-7 years.
2006-11-12 14:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by esguerrajimenez 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's never too soon. You should feel guilty if you fall in love again very quickly, but it's never too soon.
2006-11-12 14:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's never too soon if you feel the love. Love is not a choice. If you have another special lady, go with it.
2006-11-12 14:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋