I'm starting to believe that Men are looking for Sex and Women are looking for Love so we'll always be looking for different things.
If this is true, is evey relationship doomed to fail eventually?
2006-11-12 06:14:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No...eventually the man falls in love with the lady...
But wait... by then the lady will have probably hit her sexual peak and will be just wanting sex...not love.
Sh*t!
just kidding...it all comes full circle and works out in the end hun...it's about the RIGHT two people being together...that's all.
OOOOH I like Justins Answer!!!!! =) =)
2006-11-12 06:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I definitely don't believe that's true. I believe a LOT more men are looking for sex than women. But there are some men who are looking for love. On the flip side, some women are after sex more than love. It's just a matter of finding the right person, and they are out there.
2006-11-12 06:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Emo B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everybody's experiences color their lives. So, if you pick men that are emotionally unavailable and only looking for sex or you start a relationship based on sex, at first, and then try to get to know them, nine times out of ten, the relationship won't end up lasting. I don't think all heterosexual romantic relationships are doomed for failure. I believe that our thinking and perception of things plays a large part in our success as well.
2006-11-12 06:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all are doomed to fail...
But, until a man grows up and realizes, theres more to life than just sex.. unfortunately he'll continue to fail.
And unfortunately, men dont want to grow up, till their late 20's early 30's. Thats finally when they realizes, 'hey.. i dont want to live a lonely boring life anymore. I can find someone with mutal wants and desires of living a happier life with a companion, partner and even a best friend. I want a family, with kids whom look up to me as an example and as a hero in their eyes.'
2006-11-12 06:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by debs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at men are looking for just sex, and not all women are looking for love. Some want love some want sex and not commitment. I guess you will just have to keep trying until you find someone with the same ideas as yourself. good luck and God bless
2006-11-12 06:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I am a man and I would want to be with a woman even if she says no to sex. Not all men think like that. I don't.
There is more to being with a woman. Making her smile and making her happy, these are better than sex and that is what I do to my wife and for six yrs we haven't had a single fight or even argument.
2006-11-12 06:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but some women look for sex and some men look for love...so some relationships might work
2006-11-12 06:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! all men aren't just looking for sex about 20 percent are looking for love.
2006-11-12 06:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't speak for every man. I believe in a thing called love. It's just that when a man isn't looking for love, and he's just looking for sex, it's hard for him to find a girl that's just looking for sex and not for love.
So, that's where most complications come from.
2006-11-12 06:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, establish up front what you are looking for.For some people they don't want the attachment of love and commitment, just a sex partner.
2006-11-12 06:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by CareBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋