Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

he broke up with me 2 days ago..
im sad now. i know it was coming... our relationship wasnt goin good cus we had too much problems in 1 yr.. i want him so back now. im not talking to him now cus he said he doesnt want to talk to me for few month. i went over wed nite to pick up my stuff but he said they are 2 more stuff so he was gonna bring it over but i said maybe its best we didn see each other now n told him ill get it bak when we both are cool down. he said he'll take care of it. will there be hope? u think i could get him back again?

2006-11-10 06:37:41 · 8 answers · asked by julie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 06:37:31 · 11 answers · asked by kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister wants to get married, so she turned to me for help (like I would know. I was married in Canada).

2006-11-10 06:37:17 · 8 answers · asked by <3 The Pest <3 6 in Weddings

...I did a horrible thing and fibbed, telling him I did. But I don't really. How can I tell him? I know it's gonna hurt him, but any suggestions on what will hurt the least? ie. what to say?
(and please don't tell me i've got to tell him, i KNOW i do, I just need to know the best way)

2006-11-10 06:36:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that im goin out with and he's amazing but then theres this guy that im really intrested in and he's going out with another girl and today he told me that he loves me and i just looked at him should i tell his girlfriend? (she one of my friends) but i dn want to hurt her cuz she really likes him he said tht the only reason that he is going out with her is because he isnt going out with me and that the only way that he can hae a part of me is because she kinda like me but i dnt what to do so please help me

2006-11-10 06:36:01 · 8 answers · asked by nicole j 1 in Singles & Dating

so what sould i do i trust her but dont what that somone in trouble
should i lie and say nothing happening

2006-11-10 06:35:45 · 8 answers · asked by melanie a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy I thought was single held my hand when walking me to my car after a get-together, well little did I know the scumbag was married! I feel horrible now, should I? All we did was held hands, but before then he would constantly touch me and hug me, etc.

2006-11-10 06:35:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are almost like roomates. We do love each other - there is just no passion there. I've tried to spice things up - but between his work, and the football he watches, he is never "in the mood" it seems.
Last week, his friend came over. My husband was working late and was not home. I always thought there was "something" there between his friend Gary and me. We were alone , and I know its wrong - but we ended up kissing at first - then had mad passionate sex in the bedroom. I have never felt THAT alive - and that excited - in years. Gary left literally 10 minutes before my husband got home.
Since then - I have seen Gary every day...9 days in a row. Gary has a flexible schedule, so its very easy for him to stop by our house. He is married as well - but says he loves his wife, as I love my husband.
I KNOW cheating is wrong....
BUT...is it possible to have a loving marriage...and a lusty affair at the same time?
Does anyone else have both?

2006-11-10 06:34:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left me six months ago for another woman. He won't file and divorce and I can't afford a lawyer ( I have consulted ten). I hate being in this limbo and I hate not seeing my kids everyday. He gave me the "It's not you, it's me" speech. My friends are sick of the crying. Has anyone been through this who can offer some hope other than "things will get better?" Did they get better for you? How? If they don't, I don't see the point.

2006-11-10 06:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by bobbie k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with one of my teachers what can i do to forget him? or should i tell him?

2006-11-10 06:33:33 · 22 answers · asked by Danielle H 1 in Singles & Dating

it happenz this way...i live with my uncle n aunt..whenever i talk about something my uncle starts arguing n gives out his opnion on whatever i say and we keep arguing until it turns out to be he insults me or i say something that he gets upset abt it...its really upseting me now...i want to have some advise how to get away frm this kind of situation or to know why is my uncle reacting this way Thanku

2006-11-10 06:32:59 · 6 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family

ok i have posted three questions on this website tonight(i'm in germany for those wondering been stationed here for seven years) my husband is deployed alot so i watch a lot of videos to pass the time if you catch my drft. well i ahve him home for 4 weeks and he seems kind of shy when it comes to new stuff. how can i tell him or introduce him to s.e.x in public or just raw uncontrollable s.e.x? role play? anything,, i want to do what they are doing on the dvd..it looks fun. any suggestions or ideas?

2006-11-10 06:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 2 years and he still talks to her. im his first serious relationship. he told me he will always talk to her. im not a jealous person but i know how she is. my b/f is a really jealous guy. i get the 5th everytime i talk to someone girl or guy. why is it ok for him not for me. and when we do our own thing he always makes a comment like better not find a new b/f. so i know he cares. what do i do? i dont want to start a fight and everytime i bring her name up he gets mad and it turns into a huge fight! he somehow always defends her. how do i avoid the fight. i dont care if they talk but not behind my back. and i told him that! he says he doesnt tell me cuz he doesnt want me to get mad?!?!?!

2006-11-10 06:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by Redneck Woman 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a parking lot and a really attractive girl pulls up in a hummer. She gets out and while walking past me gives me a dazzling smile and says hello? Needless to say it made my day but what does it mean?

2006-11-10 06:32:16 · 15 answers · asked by DefenderOfTheMeek22 4 in Singles & Dating

we spend alot of time together, and he acts like he really cares but i feel that we should already be together, and not in this stage... what ever this stage is.

2006-11-10 06:32:10 · 5 answers · asked by mindblowin8358 1 in Singles & Dating

And why does black male/white female still draw the most attention.

2006-11-10 06:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by TheNobleOne 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and we have had promblems. I have tried to comprimes with him. I'm not the best person in the world but I loved him but he constantly, tries to hurt me. I dont know what to do, i cant figure out how I can be strong.

2006-11-10 06:31:48 · 4 answers · asked by taneshia_mcclain 1 in Singles & Dating

for bed then he gets up early in the mornen and gos mite not see him for a week when he walks out the door i keep having this man back every time we splite up whot can i do to get away from him theres a big age difference hes 43 im 23 iv been with him 2 years hes my second boyfriend help

2006-11-10 06:31:34 · 24 answers · asked by hotmail 1 in Singles & Dating

As a new ex wife I read alot of questions on here about how to deal with crazy ex wives and husbands. People seem to be very negative about exs. Why is that? I know there are some ex wives and husbands who are not nice but I often wonder is they have a reason to be. I wonder if we expect too much from them? My ex left me for another woman after having an affair. Our marriage was troubled but I was commited to making it work. He was not. He and the other woman now want to re-establish a relationship with me for the sake of our kids. I am not interested. The kids live with me and visit them every other weekend. I do not say anything bad about them to the kids - I support my ex husband's relationship with his children. But that is all I am willing to give (at least right now). I do not want to be friends - especially with the other womans. They broke my heart and my kids' hearts. Does that make me a bad person?

2006-11-10 06:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay you can be out on a date with your BF and he is staring at you. but my thing is what is he really looking at or thinking about?

2006-11-10 06:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by vixen63_babygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 06:31:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him on holiday in Sri Lanka

2006-11-10 06:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Family

2006-11-10 06:28:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 06:28:06 · 9 answers · asked by lilmiss 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 06:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by heart of stone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a friend ad she did horrible stuff to me and my boyfriend(she didnt rape us) i want to get her back somebody please tell how to make a voodoo doll or how to get revenge *she tried to break us up and that made me really mad *

2006-11-10 06:27:38 · 2 answers · asked by dbcanary 1 in Friends

I'm bout to go on a first date with this girl and im not sure if i should kiss her on the lips or the cheek at the end of the date.

2006-11-10 06:27:35 · 5 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 06:27:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My 21st birthday is coming up on December 2nd, and my friends want to take me out. How can I tell them politely that I am not interested in drinking or getting drunk? Any suggestions on anything else we could do to celebrate?

2006-11-10 06:27:14 · 24 answers · asked by Amber 5 in Friends

2006-11-10 06:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating