theres this guy that im goin out with and he's amazing but then theres this guy that im really intrested in and he's going out with another girl and today he told me that he loves me and i just looked at him should i tell his girlfriend? (she one of my friends) but i dn want to hurt her cuz she really likes him he said tht the only reason that he is going out with her is because he isnt going out with me and that the only way that he can hae a part of me is because she kinda like me but i dnt what to do so please help me
2006-11-10 06:36:01 · 8 answers · asked by nicole j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
2006-11-10 06:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give this clown the time of day. He is "sneaking" on your friend and trying to get with you, knowing you have someone and that he has someone. Do you want to be his girl and have him doing the same to you in 3 months? Do you want to wonder if he is? I say thread carefully my dear, you are about to lose more than a girlfriend or the advances of a two timer loser, who thinks nothing of putting everything YOU HAVE on the line for him. Whats he putting on the line? His lying tongue? Stay away from him!
2006-11-10 14:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your current b/f is amazing. Why go with anyomne else regardless of what they say to you? No brainer decision. Don;t tell your g/f and don;'t date this other guy. Your friend may end up hating you forever as a result so stock woth your "AMAZING" b/f
2006-11-10 14:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated with one of my best friend's boyfriends. She eventaully found out when they got back together. He didn't really care about me, just about controlling and hurting her. So, I was the fool and now me and my friend haven't spoken in like 5 years. I miss her. We grew up together and I feel like some of my other friends think I'm a wh*re and don't trust me around their boyfriends.
Think twice. You can sleep with anyone you want or date anyone... but make a rule to NEVER date/sleep with your friends' boyfriends or exes.
2006-11-10 14:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Falina T. Rayon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay out of it. It is what you do that counts. If he is involved with another girl ( especially one of your friends) you should really not say anything to her....but I would tell him that he is involved with your friend and you are really disappointed in him for behaving this way. I say that if this other guy is amazing....stick with him. You already know what your friends guy is capable of. ( going out with one girl and having feelings for another).
2006-11-10 14:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend. It would be wrong not to tell her, and wrong to like him. How can you like him? He would do the same exact thing to you if he was goin out with you. Forget that cheater, tell your friend!!!
2006-11-10 14:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bennany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how close a friend she is. if you tell her will she get mad at you? He's also not the guy for you if he's willing to say that when he is going out with your friend. who will it be of your friends that he says it to next
2006-11-10 14:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by robin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nocole Honey, are you Blonde? Run like heck from this scum sack, what the hecks wrong with you, can't you see somethings amiss.
2006-11-10 14:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋