for bed then he gets up early in the mornen and gos mite not see him for a week when he walks out the door i keep having this man back every time we splite up whot can i do to get away from him theres a big age difference hes 43 im 23 iv been with him 2 years hes my second boyfriend help
2006-11-10 06:31:34 · 24 answers · asked by hotmail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get away NOW
2006-11-10 06:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with him? What do you get from him and what are you scared of loosing? He is a total looser and is using you big time. You are young, find someone who will love and make you happy. There is nothing nicer than being in love and being loved. So stop wasting your time with this guy who has nothing to give you. Maybe you need to sort out your isues too - what attracted you to him and why are you still putting up with such crap.
By the way, I am amazed that you can not write at 23! Are you really 23?!
2006-11-10 14:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you probably realize it already but you are in a dead-end relationship. Since you said he is using you, you understand the situation clearly. I don't know why you think you must be with this man who is lacking so much in his life. Is it pity for him>? Are you uncertain you will find someone else? Ask yourself what it is. Because I am sure you can do much better than the situation you are in. I can promise you it will be a waste of your life if you continue. I am sure you are full of talent and a lot to offer someone in companionship. Nothing is more precious than being loved & respected by someone you love and respect. It is a mutual undertanding. You deserve better. Please contact your local Mental Health and see what counciling is available for you. You need to get out of that situation now. The best is yet to come. A great life awaits you.
2006-11-10 14:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Catie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been on that trip before. I dated a man who was 22 years older than me and I regret it to this day. He was never around and when he was I was more or less "arm candy" to impress his friends. You just need to shut the door on this guy and start going out and doing your own thing. Hang out with friends and meet new people. Don't waste anymore time on him, the old saying goes "you can't teach an old dog new tricks". I know from experience, I wasted close to 5 years on a guy who was a wrestling coach and a divorced (stupid) and now I have a great guy who really is there for me and is alot closer to my age. Good luck girl, I really feel for ya!!
2006-11-10 14:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by vwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dirty old man! (I'm 5 yrs older than he, and I'm calling him "old" because he is taking advantage of your youth - and you are just a kid, kiddo!)
Pls move on - you answered your own question. You are not equal partners with him, and have very little in common. The relationship was doomed before it began. Sorry.
2006-11-10 14:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time for you to get a bit smarter sweetie and stand up for yourself, it's pretty obvious that you don't like the way you're being treated so, you need to let him go or tell him exactly how you feel and don't be afraid to do so- everything will be fine, but you gotta be strong and stand firm on the things that you say. good luck.....
2006-11-10 14:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by ke ke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anybody treat you like that! He's walking all over you. I know you probably love and care about him, and you've been with him for a while, but you've got to let this guy go. He won't do anything but hurt you.
2006-11-10 14:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by oxoangeliaoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find a real man this 1 is using u.
tell him 2 take a hike.
2006-11-10 14:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away from him! When he calls, don't speak to him; if he comes over, tell him to go away. You're a sex partner to him, and nothing else,
2006-11-10 14:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't open the doors. Change the locks. Tell him you don't want to be with him and don't want to see him anymore.
How I can help you more?
2006-11-10 14:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋