Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

He moved out 7 months ago if fact 2 days after I discovered he had an affair. The holidays are approaching and its almost a sickning feeling to not be together after 16 years. He avoids the questions I have and all but refuses to sit down and talk about things and what we are doing now and future. I am completely devastated over the whole thing because I never stopped loving him. We have always been a strong couple and a proud family and I cannot understand why he won't talk or why he doesn't want to make any effort in keeping our family together. I'm just in disamay he could so easily walk away after 2 kids and 16 years married.

2006-11-10 06:25:06 · 22 answers · asked by Gettcha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 06:23:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I CAUGHT MY HUSBAN TALKING OUTSIDE ON THE CELL PHONE ONE NIGHT AT 11:30PM. I ASKED HIM WHATS GOING ON HE SAID NOTHING WITH A LOOK ON HIS FACE LIKE I CAUGHT HIM DOING SOMEHTING WRONG. HE FINALLY ADMITED THAT HE HAS BEEN TALKING TO A YOUNGER WOMEN FOR MONTHS. BECAUSE HE WAS NOT HAPPY IN THE MARRIAGE FOR 3 YEARS NOW. WE TALKED IT OUT AND WE PROMISED EACH OTHER THAT WE WOULD TRY TO WORK IT OUT FIRST BEFORE WE GET A DIVORES. HE TALKED TO HER A FEW MORE TIMES. THEN HE SAID HE TOLD HER HE WAS GOING TO TRY TO MAKE THE MARRIAGE WORK. I HAVE A PRINT OUT OF ALL HIS CELL PHONE CALLS. SO I KNOW WHO IS CALLING. HE HASENT TALKED TO HER IN 2 MONTHS. BUT I WONDER DOES HE HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER? DOES HE MISS HER? SO MANY QUESTIONS ARE GOING THROUGH MY HEAD. AND HE WONT ANSWER NONE OF THEM. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

2006-11-10 06:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband recently lied to me about smoking pot. this has been an issue for us for years. he had told me he quit and i believed him, i told him that if he needed help i would be there for him, but he went behind my back and did it anyway. When i confronted him, he lied to me a number of times and came up with all kinds of excuses. he knew all he had to was ask for help or just tell me and i would not have been upset, i would have tried tohelp him.
NOW, since these incidents, i am doubting his honesty in the past. it scared me to realize he could lie to me that well and continue to lie to me when i confronted him.
the one thing that i now am doubting is whether or not he slept with a friend of mine before we got together. i know for a fact that 9 months after they were "friendly" a baby was born. this baby looks shockingly similar to my husband, yet he continues to deny that he ever slept with her. he says i should go talk to her or get a dna test if i dont believe him.

2006-11-10 06:22:02 · 16 answers · asked by Dottie C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20 years old and I barely get asked out by guys my age! I hang out with some guys in my group and they tell me I'm "beautiful" yet never see me as more than a friend. They always end up going for the girl that is willing to go further than I. I am a Christian and I have decided to wait until marriage, and no I am not a prude, I just feel that is what God wants me to do and I feel that it is a great and special thing to share with my future husband. Anyways, I am in college and I love to hang out and have a good time and I'm always smiling and I try to be friendly to everyone, I just choose not to smoke or drink. My friends do and I'm totally cool with it, whatever floats your boat is what I say. Anyways, recently I found out that several guys I know are interested according to a friend of mine, yet they have yet to tell me so. I always get approached my much older men or stalker-ish types, but never by men my own age.

2006-11-10 06:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hear people say they did it with theirselve...how is that done?????

2006-11-10 06:21:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my potential boyfriend said that we should hang out alone anymore because we lack self control..which is completely true, but when we hang out in a group hes a dick trying to be the funny guy gets a bit drunk, shows off.. thats why i like spending time with him alone because hes sweet, kind and so much fun..

why does he have to be like that?have you experienced this?

2006-11-10 06:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

situation is that she is working with me for last 2months. she is 4,5 year older then me(she is single with no kids). we had kind of sexual tension but we didnt speak about this. but yesterday she said that u dont even like me. what does this mean. does she like me or no.

2006-11-10 06:20:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a double marriage, me and a friend of mine are having.
Except my friend has never met her boyfriend, and yea, I keep thinking something will go wrong today...

2006-11-10 06:19:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 6'6 and I like it.,.but,sometimes It gets annoying all the stares and the quiestions some people will ask are extremley stupid.Hows the weather up there..I have to duck down to walk through doorways,Ive been known to hit my head on ceiling fans lol..Do any of you really tall guys feel this way sometimes?

2006-11-10 06:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you enjoy staying home and handling dh's money?do you enjoy decorating the house and cleaning,cooking and motherhood?

2006-11-10 06:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by nate's wife! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well she flipped again this time grabbing my face and pinning me down on the bed shortly after saying to me 'don't leave me'
It is happening on the 10th and 23rd of the month
I have moved back to my flat I have had enough ,she cant get out of her head Rita whom I had a relationship when we split last new year ,she knows I phoned Rita before we split but she was behaving like Mrs moody then.Perhaps I shouldn't own up to this but I read some of her old diary from over 10 years ago and she listed her moodyness in it.
I am totaly washed out by all this but miss her already,I was doing all I could to make her happy and to feel secure (jive lessons,meals out ,holidays, flowers and letting her know I loved her all the time}
Is thre realy someone out there that wont take me for granted and treat me like a fool?
Thanks

2006-11-10 06:19:16 · 2 answers · asked by Spitfire 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive loved this guy named Dustin sense 3rd grade. Well, my friend Laura liked him after people started saying that me and him were a good couple even though he didn't like me. She asked him out, and he said yes. Should I tell her how I feel about this or not? Any other things I could do???

2006-11-10 06:18:33 · 7 answers · asked by Bennany 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres whats wrong:
Dad- ever since he started playing vidio games hes been swearing and not wanting to do anything but play vidio games and sell stuff. He doesn't really care about our family anymore and has recently started picking fights with my mom. Hes obnoxios alot now and expects me to lagh at some 2nd grade jokes that are imature and definatley NOT funny. They're annoying. He says he loves me but shows nothing of it.

Mom-Really theres nothing she does wrong. She is mad at my dad alot because of his lack of resposibility around the house and how he ignores us,and how he always wants to sleep with her but she doesn't want to because they fight to much,and he doesn't deserve it.

Brother: He always picks my dads side when we fight,but thats only because my dad buys him lots of stuff. He is influence by my dad and has also recently started swearing.

Me:I am just confused

2006-11-10 06:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by hlovestosing 2 in Family

Does anyone else feel you sometimes can't win with people? I don't know how to deal with others any more, I am so tired of certain people, you help them out and they take advantage are inconsiderate and uncaring and they take advantage because they think they can, this constantly happens to me, I gave this "friend" some business & took a bigger part of the profit, not only that but talked bad about me w/another business associate & gave him his business card, (I only helped him because he is pretty ill) but I am very upset, things like this are making me act so weird, I don't go out, & have no life, I don't know what to do. I care for that man in a different way, he has feelings for me too, but doesn't act right. What would you do? (I'm really frustrated and look unhappy more often than I'd like to)

2006-11-10 06:17:20 · 3 answers · asked by My King loves me 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 06:16:36 · 11 answers · asked by shay16lips 1 in Singles & Dating

Both my father and step father are 50ish. They seem to have it all...tools, clothes, watches, wallets, cologne etc. Does anyone have any creative ideas for these two for Christmas? Everyone else is so easy to buy for, except them. Neither one is into ties or sweaters either. I'm at a loss. My dad has a Harley, and for like the past 5 years his gifts have been motorcycle related. I was hoping to get a fresh idea since he has all he could ever want or need with Harley's on it. I usually spend like $100 or so on each of them. Any thoughts?

2006-11-10 06:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Family

im having trouble attracting girls and some of my friends say ive been trying too hard or that im being too nice, what should i do???!!

2006-11-10 06:14:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And have a pretty big size family. Do you think they will understand that I cant give them alot for Christmas?? And what are some good cheap ideas for gifts?? What stores are good??

2006-11-10 06:08:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was on aim and someone sent a message to my friend that said something bad about her. That person made it look like I sent it, and i didnt. How can i regain my friendship back???

2006-11-10 06:07:25 · 4 answers · asked by dEliA*s 2 in Friends

the ones who need it the most or the ones who have been visiting me regularly?
i've got relatives who are well-off and others who are struggling

2006-11-10 06:07:09 · 22 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Family

We have some friends coming round in 10 minutes who just got engaged. We have bought them a card, but have no idea what to write inside it!

2006-11-10 06:06:31 · 15 answers · asked by Chris G 1 in Weddings

i want some free donation for my father treatnment because we are not financialy strong so please help our family

2006-11-10 06:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by sandeep k 2 in Family

I need some ideas. Almost every time my wife has a problem, I have to ask her what happened for about 30 minutes before she will tell me. The problem isn't always big or very personal and most of the time it has nothing to do with me (just a random problem). I will ask her why she is being so quiet and at first she will say "nothing" then "its nothing important". I have told her that just because its not important, that doesn't mean I'm not interested. Is this just a chick thing or is there something I can say to her to get her to talk about it? I am really getting sick of this and last night I told her I don't want to do this with her for the rest of my life.

P.S.
When she is mad or upset with me, she has no problem telling me

2006-11-10 06:04:23 · 5 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Family

If they broke it? And it took a long time to even trust the person in the first place? Does that person deserve to be trusted again? (it's a friend)

2006-11-10 06:02:26 · 15 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Friends

I was wondering what size boobs do girls prefer on their body. Give me a size you would like to have. My wife wants implants but doesn't know what size would look good. So tell me what you preference is.

2006-11-10 06:02:19 · 28 answers · asked by andyramvzb 3 in Singles & Dating

this is my question.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhNaNfJaH70pfGIfvJzTU9vsy6IX?qid=20061110094036AAJ4u4a

and everybody made a big issued about what i did... and i just told my bf the truth at the moment. what about if he had discovered behind me that guys are trying to hang out with me and i havent let him know about???? i guess he would had gotten even more mad.

so what's the best thing to do? Let me know ASAP

2006-11-10 06:01:22 · 5 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

thanks so much for all the answers to my question... Im leaving for work now.. but printed out your answers for my husband to read.. maybe he will get the message!!

2006-11-10 06:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by vicki f 2 in Family

If you were going out with a girl, and she had a medical problem and needed to wear a wig, but it was sewn to the little bit of hair she had and it looked really natural would you care? Or would you dump her? Would you want to know up front, or would it not matter, since it couldnt like move around or anything??

Please answer honestly.

2006-11-10 05:59:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father filed for bankruptsy last year. He doesnt want his parents to find out because he doesnt want to loose out on his inheritence. Should someone tell my grandparents so they can plan accordingly. My father would blow any money that he gets from them.

2006-11-10 05:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by kc dude 1 in Family