Heres whats wrong:
Dad- ever since he started playing vidio games hes been swearing and not wanting to do anything but play vidio games and sell stuff. He doesn't really care about our family anymore and has recently started picking fights with my mom. Hes obnoxios alot now and expects me to lagh at some 2nd grade jokes that are imature and definatley NOT funny. They're annoying. He says he loves me but shows nothing of it.
Mom-Really theres nothing she does wrong. She is mad at my dad alot because of his lack of resposibility around the house and how he ignores us,and how he always wants to sleep with her but she doesn't want to because they fight to much,and he doesn't deserve it.
Brother: He always picks my dads side when we fight,but thats only because my dad buys him lots of stuff. He is influence by my dad and has also recently started swearing.
Me:I am just confused
2006-11-10 06:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by hlovestosing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is really sad but very common... people get addicted to videos and the internet just as if it was alcohol or drugs... I would partner up with your mom and start ignoring them and find something for the two of you to do together outside home...
When you and your mom come in the door from being out act like and talk about what you did out loud to each other and acted like you could careless about them...sometimes the more you ***** about something... the more a person will continue the bad behavior... good luck... hope this helps
2006-11-10 06:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dearest child, you are in a situation not of your own making. I would suggest trying to stay out of the fray and let the adults work out their situation. You really are not responsible for what your parents are doing or not doing for that matter. I would recommend you speak to a school counselor to get help for yourself and your emotional well being. Taking sides with your ar against your brother won't help anything. Your Dad is a big kid that your Mom has married. While your Mom may not have "done anything wrong" she is ALLOWING your Dad to stay in this state with NO CONSEQUENCES. And your being privy to their sex life or lack thereof if quite frankly disturbing. Please seek a trusted adult to confide in and learn how you can cope better while doing your best to learn from your parents the mistakes NOT TO MAKE! Good luck to you dear one!
2006-11-10 06:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know what to say other than your dad needs to grow up and get a job. is there a good reason why he's not working?
take the video game and smash it with a hammer!!!!!!!
tell them how you feel. suggest family counseling. write a letter to your dad and tape it to the television screen.
talk to your school councilor and see if she can set up a meeting with your parents.
maybe your mom should kick out your dad till he shows he can be decent and responsible.
i don't know but i do wish you the best.
2006-11-10 06:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing, i do feel bad. something happened to your dad, i can not tell you what. something that he no longer wants to accept his responsibilities..and of course your brother is going to act that way...not his fault>>>until your father wakes up and realizes what a mistake he is making, you and your mom will have to stick together. i would however stop badgering them about anything, they will use you as an excuse. i don't think you should know anything about your parents sleeping arrangements though, that's up to your mom.
2006-11-10 07:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by CINTHIA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u guys talk it out ...set a day for the whole family were no one fights or complines everyone just gose with the flow try it out
2006-11-10 06:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Patty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and talk to them. If you Father just laughs, tell him this is serious. Hopefully, they listen.
2006-11-10 06:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Bennany 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling how old are you? how about your grandparents or aunts and uncles?
im me if you need to talk.
2006-11-10 06:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by ttepinzon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
show them this your question
2006-11-10 06:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋