If they broke it? And it took a long time to even trust the person in the first place? Does that person deserve to be trusted again? (it's a friend)
2006-11-10 06:02:26 · 15 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That wouldn't ever be me, I wouldn't do what my so called friend did.....
2006-11-10 06:20:56 · update #1
Everyone is worth giving a second chance, especially a friend. Now, my opinion is.....you give someone three strikes, and then they are out. Not until then.
2006-11-10 06:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that we all make mistakes, were human. I know there have been times in your life when you broke the trust circle, so getting self righteous about it isnt cool. Then again, it all depends on what it is, I mean if your life is at stake then I say no, but if its something small that could be nipped in the bud, why not. Do you feel that the friendship is worth saving? Thats the question you have to ask yourself...
2006-11-10 14:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Once the trust is gone....it's gone forever. I have never heard of or experienced being able to trust somebody again after it has been broken. You might think you can but you will always have lingering doubt in your mind. It is not fair towards yourself to put yourself thru that for the rest of your life. That person obviously does not deserve otherwise he/she would not have broken it in the first place.
2006-11-10 14:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you, are a person that can give someone a second chance. Some people can forgive and forget, some people forgive but not really because they always remind the other person of how they hurt them and some people can do either. YOU have to decide if you can forgive and forget and if you are prepared for it to happen again, in case it does happen again.
2006-11-10 14:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell your friend your feelings. If he/she is sorry, forgive him/her. Besides, he/she is your friend anyway. No relationships are perfect. It maybe family, officemates, teams and even with friendships. Give him/her a second chance. That is, if you want him/her to be your friend. That experience of yours may result for s stronger relationship with your friend in the future. Most of the times, some nasty things happens in a relationship. Some people learn from it and make it a strong foundation of a stronger relationship. some people don't. I think you will pick the better choice.
Best wishes.
2006-11-10 14:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was friends w/ this girl for about 4 years or so and last year she tried to take someone very special from me and that made me so mad i dont believe i will ever trust her ever again and i think its hard to find someone that you can trust
2006-11-10 14:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by dbcanary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone deserves another chance.....I think you should trust her again because after all she is your friend..you should be able to trust her.
2006-11-10 14:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things can't be fixed. You're not obligated to trust someone who broke your trust. Remember "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
2006-11-10 14:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u feel the person has risen from his mistake i think he/she needs a chance. Cuase what really matters is if the person has realised and learned from his mistake
Regards
AJ
2006-11-10 14:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes mistakes. If you forgive them, then you should trust them again.
2006-11-10 14:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋