the ones who need it the most or the ones who have been visiting me regularly?
i've got relatives who are well-off and others who are struggling
2006-11-10 06:07:09 · 22 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
leave it to a charity that deals with disabled kids
2006-11-10 06:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kinda tough because there are all types of people out there. First of all, are the ones that are visiting regularly visiting because they want to or are they waiting on what you have to leave them? I am a firm believer in doing for others who have done for me. The only thing is, when there is money in the picture, make sure they are there for you, not the money. On the other hand, the ones who don't visit quite so often may just be busy and caught up in their own lives. The ones that are there for you now, helping you out and doing for you are the ones who deserve anything from you. Just remember, once someone is gone, the buzzards come in flying, everyone is out for the money. That just makes me sick, but in your case, do for the ones who have done you for........good luck and I hope for you that it is years before you will have to face this problem.
2006-11-10 14:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they r visiting u regularly for money, then they dont deserve it.
Leave it to people of need it the most. Thats better.
2006-11-10 14:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones that help you when you need something. The ones that call round and phone to check your okay.. The ones that you could phone at 2 am in the morning!!!
Why would you give you money to someone who doesn't give a toss? Personally its your money but think about it and if you can't make you mind up give it to a Charity of your choice.
2006-11-10 15:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the question that my parents and inlaws have asked me. Now mind you...my husband is an only child and I have five siblings. I told both sets of parents that if I haven't figured out my life at the age of thirty then that is my fault. The bottom line is college is going to cost so much more when my children are ready...so please don't leave it to me...leave it to my children and make sure it is in an account for schooling only until like the age of 25...these accounts can be set up like this!!!
Hope this makes sense!!
2006-11-10 15:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by AzMom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'd say it's easy to give it to the ones who comes to see you the most. That's not a test. I'd say split it between all of those who you can. I mean even though they wasn't there reguarly do you believe that they still love you and you them. Give everybody something to remember you by. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-11-10 14:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones who have been visiting you regulary. It will teach the others that spending time with their family can be very rewarding. (sorry for the pun).
2006-11-10 14:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by df382 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to leave it to who every you want to. But if you want to give it to people who may not vist as much as others, why not write a letter to explain why you have done this so the others will understand.
2006-11-13 09:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by big k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To those who need it most. If some are already well off, why not leave them a gift of some item that was precious to you?
2006-11-10 14:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont feel that the ones who have been comming around need it and the ones that do need it dont help you or even come see you dont leave it to either one>> find someone who needs it or a charity to give it to...
2006-11-10 15:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then help the ones that are struggling and all imediate family. Divide it up equally.
2006-11-10 14:37:50 · answer #11 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋