why are human so....?

Question

it happenz this way...i live with my uncle n aunt..whenever i talk about something my uncle starts arguing n gives out his opnion on whatever i say and we keep arguing until it turns out to be he insults me or i say something that he gets upset abt it...its really upseting me now...i want to have some advise how to get away frm this kind of situation or to know why is my uncle reacting this way Thanku

Answer 1

wow- sensative people- jsut don't talkt to them about anythin

Answer 2

He can only upset you as much as you allow it. My guess is that he enjoys getting a rise out of you, the sicko! Don't talk to him. Simple as that.

Really... Next time, ask him politely to stop being argumentative. When he continues (and he probably will, because it's worked for him before), inform him that you choose to absent yourself from his verbal abuse. And leave.

It may take a few times, but eventually he'll get the picture. He'll either stop or he won't - but you can't control his behavior, only yours.

Good luck... Family can be so hard sometimes!

Answer 3

Can you live with anyone else? Are you old enough to move out on your own? Your uncle sounds strange - very argumentative without much reason.

Answer 4

Just stop conversing with him. He's obviously an *sshole, but once you see him getting all mad and disrespectful, just say "hey, let's agree to disagree" and then walk away. Or say "i respect your opinion and like to have discussions with you and tell you what's going on in my life but it's not cool to disrespect me and belittle me just b/c you disagree"

He's supposed to be the mature one, right??!1

Answer 5

does your uncle drink?? he sounds like a drinker to me they always want to argue and they are always rite

Answer 6

It's human nature. They dont want your opinion because they want things going the way they want.