ok i have posted three questions on this website tonight(i'm in germany for those wondering been stationed here for seven years) my husband is deployed alot so i watch a lot of videos to pass the time if you catch my drft. well i ahve him home for 4 weeks and he seems kind of shy when it comes to new stuff. how can i tell him or introduce him to s.e.x in public or just raw uncontrollable s.e.x? role play? anything,, i want to do what they are doing on the dvd..it looks fun. any suggestions or ideas?
2006-11-10 06:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
serious answers only please.
2006-11-10 06:33:17 · update #1
Well, if he's a shy guy, you should respect that and never try to force an uncomfortable idea. Try something small and non threatening you think he would like(dress up in a role play costume or try a new position-especially a new oral sex idea, can't go wrong with any guy and oral sex). Go slow, and always respect your partners thoughts. I would not immediately go out and talk about all the new stuff you want to try, he may think you've been trying things with others while he has been away. When he gets home make sure it's all about him and letting him know how much you love him. Make him feel secure. Let him know you have been missing him and thinking about him sexually, and you'd like to try some new things. Ask him what he's thought about or what he'd like to try. Make sure you take the whole thing slow if he's shy, and don't be too pushy if he's not into it, it may make him feel insecure about sex with you.
2006-11-10 06:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch the DVD together and ask him what he thinks.
2006-11-10 15:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to push it all on him at one time . . try one new thing at a time and see how he reacts to that . . get him to watch one of the dvd's with you . . maybe he'll see something that he wants to try, too . . .
2006-11-10 15:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it to him he'll go with it
put on the dvd and tell him you want that
2006-11-10 14:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
peanut butter
german shephard
sit back and enjoy
2006-11-10 15:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show him one of your movies and tell him what you want.........
2006-11-10 14:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋