im in love with one of my teachers what can i do to forget him? or should i tell him?
2006-11-10 06:33:33 · 22 answers · asked by Danielle H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Danielle,
I feel for you as I used to like my French teacher at school, but it really would not be a good idea to tell him how you feel.
Relationships between teachers and pupils are really frowned on , and it would cost him his job if anything happened , which would be very unlikely.
It is very common for girls to fancy their teachers, as girls mature faster than boys and see their teachers as mature in comparison with boys of their age.
Believe me, the boys that you know will mature and become more attractive, I met my husband when I was 15 and am still with him now 20 years later!
You will find someone that will make you feel special and more your age I'm sure. I know I look back and wonder how I could have fancied my French Teacher, I doubt if I would now !
Hope this helps !
2006-11-10 06:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by flossybean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see how everybody else's advice is going to be that helpful to you.
First of all, please don't tell him.
As to how you can forget him, well I'm not sure if this will work, with my writing it down and all, but try to picture your teacher in your head. It should be a really big picture, like you're watching him on an IMAX screen. It's just a huge picture. Now imagine him with huge breasts, hair growing out of his nostrils, with bits of bogie. He's got worms in his hair. Oh wait he's talking, but his voice is really squeeky. Basically just change the picture and soundtrack in your mind to make him seem disgusting, ridiculous. Now lastly, with this new picture in your mind, shrink it. Keep shrinking it until it's really small. Really tiny. Then grap the picture (which is now the size of a polaroid) and rip it into shreds.
Will this work. I truly doubt it, but hopefully it will cheer you up.
2006-11-10 06:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by White_Clothes_Scare_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
2006-11-10 06:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with him.
You're young. You don't really know what "in love" means.
It's just a big infatuation you have.
It's okay to like a teacher. It happens.
But just don't do anything about it.
You'll end up embarrassing yourself and having to live with the embarrassment till the school year is over.
2006-11-10 06:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him, it is just a little crush you will get over it. I don't want to see you on CNN and crap. Every girl has a teacher they think is cute, just let it be a crush and it will soon pass. Or what you can do is follow him to the bathroom and watch him take a crap after he ate mexican food and you will get over him with a quickness.
2006-11-10 06:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first things first, how old are you if i may ask? i think that having a crush on your teacher is just something that happens to almost everyone at the school going age especially high school, so i just advise you to forget about him
2006-11-10 06:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him because you will put him in a very awkward and difficult situation. Just accept that he is your teacher, and focus on people your own age. If you really like him, you'll respect him enough to leave him alone.
2006-11-10 06:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done it..the best ting 2 do is shut ur mouth & enjoy seein him in class,in time u'll grow out of it..start checkin out the boys in ur skool den da teachers
2006-11-10 08:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, hes your teacher.
Don't tell him it will put him in an awkward situation
2006-11-10 06:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u and how old is he if hes ur teacher i think u should try to find someone else 2 like instead
2006-11-10 06:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋