Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

Okay I have a bf, been with him for a very long time(6yrs) We had a break up last year for about six months. When we first got back together, he didn't care if I went out with my girlfriends (that was one of the reasons we split up-him trying to control me) so like I said he was fine with me going out when we first got back together, but this last august, he found text messages on my phone and assumed I was skrewing around with my best friends boyfriend (which was totally UN TRUE) so now he doesn't really like my friend, or me hanging out with her, but I've known her for 15 years! So anyway, it's that friend of mines birthday tomorrow, and I wanted to take her out "just us girls" and I don't know how my bf's going to take it, and how to get him to let me go out on my own if he wants to go with me. And it's not like I'm trying to go out and do bad things, I would just like a night out with the girls, cuz I haven't had that since the whole August incident...any sincere advice? t.y.

2006-11-08 07:54:03 · 3 answers · asked by StonerChick 3 in Singles & Dating

I ahd a friend who invited a female friend to a wedding . It seemed like a very big deal to her? maybe this is in the wrong section .. But as a guy if a girl invited me to a wedding , I trea tit like a social event. But she looked like he almost ask her to commit to him .. Is this just a mal and female differance thing?

2006-11-08 07:53:47 · 11 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 07:53:45 · 16 answers · asked by Bridgett D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

good things:
fun,funny,intelligent,cultured... in music/sports,very good-looking,studying to be a plastic surgeon,very financially stable,thinks you're attractive,not needy,doesn't cheat,says he loves you.
bad things:
takes jokes too seriously sometimes n it can lead to arguments, thinks hanging out with friends is a waste of time,too into his own beliefs and gets mad if you disagree a bit too much,hates christianity and is a militant atheist, but it's a bit overboard,too into cars and spends hours looking for car parts online/car magazines,narcissistic and spends at least an hr getting ready every morning,cheap and never pays for anything and sometimes asks if i he can borrow money($5)but forgets to pay back,looks down on non-pre-med students n you're non-pre-med,looks at other women,very jealous,sometimes needs entire weekends alone to study,has a temper/gets moody/jealous, as in picking arguments mid-debate n punching walls if it gets heated, whines A LOT, doesn't want a relatonship

2006-11-08 07:53:33 · 19 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Singles & Dating

His parents are resentful towards me.....because they think we were going to fast. They want us to wait, and they still don't think I'm good enough for him. They were pretty cold with me and even rude. But i want them to like me, I'll do anything (practically). My boyfriend is the man I"m gonna marry. HOw can I gain they're trust back?

2006-11-08 07:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by gstephchuck9 1 in Family

I keep going out with my close female friend, we go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We also take roadtrips together to the coast and to the country for walks, usually followed by dinner and its just the 2 of us.This happens at least every 2 weeks, if not on a weekly basis. We’re attracted to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me,feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc

She doesn’t like it when I mention other girls that I’m interested in or ask her for advice concerning them.She always tells me that she never pulled when she went out,she’s not interested in anyone, don’t fancy anyone,etc

2006-11-08 07:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

My best friend asked me to dog sit his two HUGE Cane Corso Males that weigh 140lbs or 63.5 kg? EACH
They are not trained that well and my bestfriend has asked me to dog sit for 1 week .......The thing is 1 month ago the dog bit the meter reader guy badly and also chased a little boy ....the boy got away THANK GOD

My bestfriend told me he only trust me with his boys(the dogs)

Should I say yes out of loyalty because he has never said No to me ...... We have been bestfriends since grade 3

If he only had one tht would be so much better
what should i do to make sure the dogs listen to me AND NOT ATTACK ME for the week??

HELP..

Also he is aganst dog kennels..Weird

2006-11-08 07:52:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance has a son (he's five) with his ex-girlfriend. He lives in Florida and she in New Mexico. There has never been any court orders for child support or custody rights. She has just filed for child support. Will that allow him to have court orderd vistitation?

2006-11-08 07:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by dumbblond 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 07:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by HP 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I have been dating since Thanksgiving last year. We were having problems and broke up about 2 weeks ago. He broke his leg and I went & cleaned his house for him so that he wouldn't have to come home to a mess and told him that the satellite was putting messages on the screen that they were going to cut it off if he didn't pay. I told him this and asked if he wanted me to call and ask them how much to pay so that it wouldn't get cut off and he said he would call them and pay it. When he got home from the hospital he asked me if I called them and I said no. I asked him did he want me to pay the minimum (which was like $37 the past due amt) and he said go ahead and pay the whole thing and he would pay me back. I've asked for it he says nothing. He got his check and I took him to the bank and he deposited it. I have waited on him hand and foot for a week and he still is not saying anything about giving me the $108 he owes me. I have a 5 year old son that I have to support.

2006-11-08 07:50:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-08 07:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by lryhvr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey pplz! I've got a quick question. This is for fun. So, Be4 Y! Answers deletes this, What are u thinking right now? It doesn't have to be random, but It'd be cool if it was. I'm offering 10 pts. Now hurry! Be4 this is deleted!

2006-11-08 07:48:41 · 20 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a girl stares at you alot, epsecially at the hallway? And she smiles and enjoys the attention you give her but she doesn't initiate conversation. Also, she is aware that i have a crush on her.

2006-11-08 07:48:16 · 9 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

able to get a platonic relationship with a beautiful woman in india and have children with her while she lives and has a life in india with my children?

2006-11-08 07:47:54 · 3 answers · asked by sanju d 1 in Singles & Dating

I was having a discussion with some of my guy friends the other day (I'm a female) and they said that when a woman is truly beautiful (In and out, let's say) that all men will find her attractive. But with women we are different and one guy may be attractive to us because of his personality and eye color, while another woman may find him not attractive.

Is this true because I don't agree at all! :) But I guess only guys could answer that for me, since I'm a girl of course I don't agree! THANKS! :)

BTW--I know looks don't matter at all, because they fade and you are left with a personality which is what matters, but this is what was being discussed and I didn't know if all guys felt this way! Thanks y'all and have a good one! :)

2006-11-08 07:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now that I filed my divorce, I'm scared to be alone, I'm scared to see my soon to be ex-husband with another woman, I'm scared to even think about dating. How can I overcome this fear?

2006-11-08 07:47:25 · 22 answers · asked by FEDUP!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my friend is behind a girl from 2y, but she hate him for the core,& the main thing is that he never exposed his love to her. what to do ? any ideas plz.

2006-11-08 07:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by jor 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for six years and my husband I have had a very.very. bad marriage. There were good times but now a days it has been nothing but, accusations and name calling. I work my *** off at accomplishing my school work and have good grades. Recently, I have asked my husband for a seperation because things just isn't right between us. I just want for my marriage to work but it just aint happening. We aren't sleeping with each other. We sit in seperate rooms, we do not agree on raising the kids. It is a shame because I want to work things out, but he keeps himself distant from me. I don't want to be alone but I honestly do not love him anymore. I don't want to loose my house. I just want him to go and find a life for himself. Should I divorce?

2006-11-08 07:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by VON 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a fetish. I get turned on when I see a girl playing with her shoes or dangling her shoe. Like when I'm eating out with my girlfriend, she will sit there and constantly slip her shoes on and off and play with them under the table and I can't help but get turned on by it. I don't know why it turns me on, but it does and I can't help it. Do you think this is weird? Should I tell my girlfriend this, or keep it a secret. What if your boyfriend told you this, how would you react?

2006-11-08 07:45:31 · 17 answers · asked by seanW 1 in Singles & Dating

I won't say my crush's name on here, so let's just call him Bob. Well bob today was flirting with me. Like he does everyday! I am personally shy but not like VERY.. just kinda. And so, he went up to my computer where I was researching and he was laughing weirdly at me (But He was just joking, I know) and he looked at me like LOL and i looked at him in LOL expression too, he asked me if I needed help, and he looked at what I was reasearching too.. he does other stuff to but I won't tell you at this very moment but they are very flirtatious flirts.. I think he totally likes me No doubt, but what do you think?

2006-11-08 07:45:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

More sex with your wife or all the money she spends back?

2006-11-08 07:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have been swingers our entire marriage i was 16 and he was 25 when we got married that was6 years ago, well anyway he has recently decided that we should become monogomous, but i dont want to yet i just became old enough to go to the clubs, i do love him, but he is not enough for my sexual appetite. he said i could keep my gf but that still wouldnt be enough action to even semi-satisfy me.....what should i do?

2006-11-08 07:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

What types of showers should friends/ church members throw if any? What type of ceremony would be acceptable?

2006-11-08 07:44:36 · 6 answers · asked by Alisa K 1 in Weddings

What does that indicates if my office coleague massages her thieves looking at me sitting on chair?

2006-11-08 07:42:31 · 2 answers · asked by attitudeguyin 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting a new girlfriend, and I want to have the best...well...taste for her. The same guy told me another juice is good, but I can't remember if it's coconut juice or some other juice.

He said, "Just drink a large glass of pineapple or ________ juice the day before..." or something to that effect.

2006-11-08 07:42:09 · 17 answers · asked by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 in Singles & Dating

Originally from Texas I think. Lived in Boston for a while and moved to Johnson City, Tn. Not sure of his parents name but has a brother named Ryan I think. Any info would be appreciated.

2006-11-08 07:41:09 · 1 answers · asked by mcs7942 2 in Friends

I have lots of small things but need something big.... am stuck... all suggestions welcome.

2006-11-08 07:40:31 · 21 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a concence? And can you not have one? Becouse my mom says I'm heartless and I dont have one.

2006-11-08 07:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by Gracie Gray 1 in Family

I mean like somebody you've only known a few weeks.

2006-11-08 07:39:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does she forgive me for letting my sister take my brother to live with her and does she understand why I couldnt go up agianst everyone else in the family. Does she know how protective they are of Sherritta, and why do they dislike me so much?

2006-11-08 07:39:00 · 12 answers · asked by bellnbensgrandma 1 in Family