my husband and i have been swingers our entire marriage i was 16 and he was 25 when we got married that was6 years ago, well anyway he has recently decided that we should become monogomous, but i dont want to yet i just became old enough to go to the clubs, i do love him, but he is not enough for my sexual appetite. he said i could keep my gf but that still wouldnt be enough action to even semi-satisfy me.....what should i do?
2006-11-08 07:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the risk of taking someone on in that type of relationship. The reality is that, as partners, you don't do things that can make your bond with your partner imminent to destruction. I personally do not believe in the type of the relationship ...PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS .... that you both have been involved in simply because I do not feel my relationship would remain safe, so I chose not to do that in my life, and thankfully because of this type of result. SO, therefore, I believe that because you both are no longer mutual with this type of relationship you should cease immediately so that you do not lose the #1 person you have had in your life. Maybe it is time to start looking for a reason to fall in love with him again, get back to the basics of how you were first attracted to him and do this every day. Though I do not agree with this type of relationship, if you feel it is safe, maybe it will come back, maybe he just needs some time with YOU for a change. GL !!!!
2006-11-08 07:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go get some where you can. Who does he think he is all of a sudden wanting you to stop screwing other guys!
Sure he doesn't mind if it's a 3 some and he gets his jollies with 2 women does he?
2006-11-08 07:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be married! Marriage is about being monogamous. And what you have is called a sex addiction, and is totally unhealthy. Oh, and a girl sixteen marrying a twenty five year old is pretty nasty too. You should get a divorce and become a prostitute.
2006-11-08 07:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hun.. your already married he should know that your committed to him even if it is a open relationship you need to ask why he wants to be monogomous now what has changed between the two of you. is he gettting jealous????
2006-11-08 07:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by chriswithtwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you must have more... make sure he does too. meaning: if you go to a club and pick up a guy your now responsible for finding him a woman. don't do anything without his knowing even if it means you ain't gonna get laid. men are pretty simple, even if he only wants to sleep with you he Will settle for sleeping with another as long as he feels everything is mutual.
2006-11-08 07:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by SS_99_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and get out there and get someone that will satisfy you.It is too much std to be dipping back and forth.If you want two lover you need to make sure they are clean from std.
2006-11-08 07:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain that you are not ready to move to that step.. you are comfortable with how things are between the two of you.. also why the change of heart? that may be the reason. best wishes with this I hope I have helped some.
2006-11-08 07:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by A W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up!!! Get a divorce cuz you really don't have a relationship anyway then be free to do whatever you want.
Good luck!!!
2006-11-08 07:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont do it in one shot just tell him that it might take a little time for you to come around and you can slowly just fall back untill you feel its right
2006-11-08 07:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise on a mid point between the two of you, or let the relationship go.
2006-11-08 07:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by cubanitoloko23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋