Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

how to say goodbye . with out showing that it kills you . my boyfriend prefers his bachlors life and partying and etc ... and he told me that he isnt ready for relation i wasnt chaising him from the begining and when he was steping forward i told him once i am not ready yet . now after 2 weeks he changed his mind and told me he wants to stay away although i was taking time to reply and i didnt change my style talking and dealing with him i just wanna show him its okay if u left it wont hurt me . so please help me with affective words .i wanna be strong i dont wanna be emotional . thanks alot .

2006-11-08 08:04:53 · 3 answers · asked by Nora F 1 in Singles & Dating

to send me their naked pics, how many women have actually taken you up on that offer? Because personally i think it is funny!

2006-11-08 08:04:35 · 21 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

I think i want to propse instead of wait for my bf we been togther 6 months i think i going to prospse when i get to see him a a new years party were going to right at new years?? any think its a bad idea? good idea? um any creative ways i can propose?

2006-11-08 08:04:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I moved in with my fiance this summer and I've been having second thoughts about it. I just like being alone sometimes and he doesn't understand. I expressed to him once before that I am not comfortable living with him anymore and how I miss my own space. I even went as far as looking at a nice apt and even paying the deposit to move! He said if I moved out that would be like taking steps backwards so I stayed.

I have vacation time coming up and I want to check into a room for the weekend and get away. I think he'll think something ELSE is wrong, and it's not. I have no intentions on doing anything besides being ALONE. I feel so smothered and just want to get away. Is it wrong to feel like this?

2006-11-08 08:03:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i recently tried anal. I hated it while he loves it. He was really easy and slow, but it still hurt like hell and i felt i had to use the bathroom the whole time. It never got better. We've tried it several times now. And i still dont enjoy it. any tips?

2006-11-08 08:03:33 · 23 answers · asked by uh_huh_ok_wassup_shutup 2 in Singles & Dating

well my brother is depressed. i am 14. he is 11. yesterday in the car he broke down crying saying "no one sees me im invisable i just wan tto die. people pick me last to play games. people step on my feet and dont say sorry. people pick on me and call me names. my friends dont talk to me. i just want to die."
he has done this multipul times i just havent really heard him say it.
i've been through what he's been through i want to help him. problem is every time i go to say somthing to him he says you dont care go away. then we aruge. or i make things worse.
then my dad yells at me threatening to beat me up if i dont leave him alone and my mom threatening to ground me for messing with him.
what i want help on is how can i get to my brother. im being nicer to him for the past two weeks and he wont let me talk to him.
how can i talk to him with out getting in toruble and making things worse.
p.s.i dont care about my parents so if i need to do somthing to piss them off then i will

2006-11-08 08:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife's birthday is almost a month away, and just trying to think of ideas of what I can do for her for her birthday.

I've tossed around an idea about getting her a spa package which includes a massage, facial, manicure, and peiticure. But would also like some ideas of what I could do for her.

Thank you

2006-11-08 08:02:32 · 13 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for over 2 years now and this year we decided to do something different rather than spending $100, so we made a $5 spending limit and i want to make him something really special. Do you have any creative ideas?! I've thought about making something cute like a pet rock or even a tear off callender with a reason why i love him on each day, what do you think?

2006-11-08 08:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Singles & Dating

does this make my *** look big etc have you ever said yes, i did once and she took her time choosing another dress and i had to rebook the table

2006-11-08 08:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a hug.. i really sick and need a hug.....
dang it my throaat hurts!!!!!

2006-11-08 08:01:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known him since we were kids, and I really don't think he meant to kill the guy......Maybe he was just trying to scare him a little!

2006-11-08 08:01:03 · 23 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

I think I might have a mild case of obsessive-compulsive disorder when it comes to housework. Now that I don't have a full-time job, I spend my days wandering from room to room looking for something to clean. Sometimes I'll vaccuum 2 or 3 times a day. Do you think I'm crazy in the head, or just a clean freak?

2006-11-08 08:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by marcia_mahoya 3 in Friends

Any romantic but not too cheesy ways for a girl to propose to her man?

2006-11-08 08:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by bikbokkop 2 in Weddings

My colleague massages her thighs while talking to me in a office ....what does that indicates?

2006-11-08 08:00:16 · 3 answers · asked by attitudeguyin 1 in Friends

helga,a tall slim television achorwomen with sharp features, intelligent green eyes and red hair, came in with an ugly cut on her nose."i've been telling my friends that my shower door broke and i got cut by a piece of flying glass," she said, but the truth is bob hit me. This is the case were she meet's bob and she fills her head up with dreams and fantasy, and treat her good the first couple of months.tho she says he's diffrent,he's deep,commited.he served in the peace corp in angola and work with underprivileged children.anyways he started to call her alot and things started to get obsessive.they had dinner one night and he propose to her,he gave her his grandmothers dimond ring.they moved in toghther,at 1st inseperable always in each other arm.she taught it was terrific due to her first husband dint treated her in that kind of way. bob kept asking her to marry him but she din't want to rush.so he got upset& try to take the ring of her finger that dint help so he pulled her over &bittttttttttttttttttttt

2006-11-08 07:59:41 · 1 answers · asked by g2daezo 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a $5 spending limit and i want to make him something really special. Do you have any creative ideas?! I've thought about making something cute like a pet rock or even a tear off callender with a reason why i love him on each day, what do you think?

2006-11-08 07:59:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband isn't satisfing me in bed and I don't know what to do about it. Here's the deal, he has a nice sized package but he just doesn't last long at all! He may be able to pull off about 3 minutes at the most. Now if he's been drinking, then I'll more than likely get about 5-7 minutes. He's always been like this since we first met and I am sooooooooo tired of having to sneak off to the bathroom to reach my climax. It wouldn't be so bad if he tried to make sure I was satisfied afterwards, but he doesn't. He just rolls over and goes to sleep.
I need any and all suggestions on what I should do. I want to talk to him about it, but I'm scared that I'll hurt his feelings or something. I've always thought about just getting on top of him when he gets finished and doing something to get it back up again, but he's made the comment "I'm done for the night" and I don't know if he was just joking when he said that or if he was serios. Please help me with this one! Thank you:)

2006-11-08 07:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by wilsonhutchison04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

meaning realizing that women are worth everything a man can offer......devoting themself to one lady......what age 40s, 50s or when?

2006-11-08 07:58:35 · 12 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 07:58:16 · 31 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

ok please give me honest answers i have been married for two years and with the same guy for almost five but then there is HIM well i used to date this guy 'my first boyfriend' and first in everything else i dont remember why we broke up but i think about him all the time dont get me wrong i love my husband but this other guy is in my mind all the time right before my husband and me got married me and this other guy had a emotional affair talking all the time and telling each other that we love each other. my husband knows and forgave me than but this other guy is stillin my thoughts all the time i worry about him and email each other sometimes i can remember eveything about our relationship buut i want to be devoted only to my husband so please help how do i get this other man out of my mind, head ,and heart !!

2006-11-08 07:58:09 · 17 answers · asked by alesm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-08 07:58:04 · 7 answers · asked by grudgrime 5 in Singles & Dating

I always hear that porn should not be watched but why not? I am a single guy. Is it so bad?

2006-11-08 07:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok So i have these 2 friendz whitch i won't mintion!!!!!! Ok so they are both hitting on my cush and they both know i like him! I like him a lot. And i also found out this other guy likes me today,he is a football player and i luv him. Should i go with the football player or my crush that might get stolen? (Football player is cuter!)

2006-11-08 07:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I really like this guy (we'll call him guy #1). He's going to Africa next week and is going to be gone until April. I recently found out that one of my good guy friends (we'll all him guy #2) likes me. I had been planning to tell guy #1 how I feel about him before he left, because I sort of think that my feelings are returned. But, I just found out, that guy # 2 like me, but also wants "to do something about it". I don't know what to do. I really really like guy # 1, but what am I suppose to do with guy #2? PLEASE help!

2006-11-08 07:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

woman says she can be my mistress,seeing her when i can,i work shifts,had a drink with her this week but feel guilty do i put her off or go for it,im married 2 grown up daughters she is single /

2006-11-08 07:56:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I wish to adopt a child from Guatemala. We do not have the financial means, and we do not qualify for any types of loans or grants. We have heard of people that donate money for causes such as this. Where can we locate people who are willing to help us out? We are a loving, Christian family who wants to give a needy child a home with our family.

2006-11-08 07:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by emmasmom37303 1 in Family

2006-11-08 07:55:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a very short term realationship with a woman and we both decided to adopt out the girl.Her mother has contacted me and told me that she wants to meet me.I think Its great!But I need some advice to make this successful

2006-11-08 07:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by David M 1 in Friends

2006-11-08 07:54:46 · 33 answers · asked by brooklyn_buttafly314 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am dating this guy and he is great but he wont let me have my own space and is always at my house. What should i do???

2006-11-08 07:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating