how to say goodbye . with out showing that it kills you . my boyfriend prefers his bachlors life and partying and etc ... and he told me that he isnt ready for relation i wasnt chaising him from the begining and when he was steping forward i told him once i am not ready yet . now after 2 weeks he changed his mind and told me he wants to stay away although i was taking time to reply and i didnt change my style talking and dealing with him i just wanna show him its okay if u left it wont hurt me . so please help me with affective words .i wanna be strong i dont wanna be emotional . thanks alot .
2006-11-08 08:04:53 · 3 answers · asked by Nora F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try to change his mind about what he want it will only make him think that you depend on him.Just get with your friends and do something and let him along cause you don't need to be with some one that don't want to be with you.Try to do something to make yourself happy.When you see him act like you happy so he want think that he running things.
2006-11-08 08:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you have shown a real sense of maturity. He was matrue enough to tell you he is not ready for a relationship and you are mature enough to let him go. Just be upfront with him and tell him that you understand that he is not at a point in his life where he wants to be in a relationship and that although you will miss him you will be okay. Hats off to you for not trying to hold on to someone who wants to be free. That is not always an easy thing to do.
2006-11-08 16:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest!! Best advice I can give you let it come from your heart!
2006-11-08 16:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋