i am dating this guy and he is great but he wont let me have my own space and is always at my house. What should i do???
2006-11-08 07:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run.. dont walk and get the hell out before its too late.. What youre describing is a a control freak.. Take inventory of all the other things hes tryign tot control in your life.. your space.. your time.. the way you do stuff..
And you need to stand up for yourself now... otherwise he will start taking over more and more..
SO if you cant stand up to him .. then get out before its too hard to leave.. tell him to back to his own house to his mum and let her look after him.. not you youre an adult and he should be one.. to.. Im sure there is more to this problem than just the coming over.. all the time..
2006-11-08 08:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know before it gets to the point your fed up worse. Just be careful, because guys have this thing where if a girl says she needs more space they automatically assume you are either cheating or are trying to break up. Good luck..
2006-11-08 08:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is great as you say and you just be HONEST with him and tell him while you enjoy spending time with him, you do need a little time for yourself. Its great for a relationship cuz you have time to miss each other. If he doesnt repsond well to that, then perhaps you are dating the wrong guy.
2006-11-08 07:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by angelalf1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you enjoy spending time with him alot, and that he makes you really happy, but you need some space to yourself sometimes. Dont break it to him hard bring it out slowly and just let him know that you still want to spend alot of time with him but sometimes u need some alone time or girl time. If he really loves and cares about you he will understand.
2006-11-08 07:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Tell him one of the great things about dating is having space and thinking of each other when apart, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. However if he's never absent then your heat can't grow lol tell him that see what happens.
2006-11-08 07:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by kiroc k-Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave when you dont want him there. It is your life,right? He seems insecure and that can be a very bad thing. If he argues with you when you ask him to leave then he has his own issues he needs to deal with. Good luck to you
2006-11-08 07:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by melucknope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telll him you need your space and if he doesn't give it to you start wondering why he always comes to your house and not his. Maybe another female is in the picture.
2006-11-08 08:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by cfursa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u so much and he doesnt wanna spend any second without u.if it bothers u so much why dont u ask him?tell him u need a little time alone at least 2 hours on day
2006-11-08 07:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need some space and if he cant except that its not meant to be
2006-11-08 07:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chassidy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has fallen for u and very deep 2
2006-11-08 07:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋