good things:
fun,funny,intelligent,cultured... in music/sports,very good-looking,studying to be a plastic surgeon,very financially stable,thinks you're attractive,not needy,doesn't cheat,says he loves you.
bad things:
takes jokes too seriously sometimes n it can lead to arguments, thinks hanging out with friends is a waste of time,too into his own beliefs and gets mad if you disagree a bit too much,hates christianity and is a militant atheist, but it's a bit overboard,too into cars and spends hours looking for car parts online/car magazines,narcissistic and spends at least an hr getting ready every morning,cheap and never pays for anything and sometimes asks if i he can borrow money($5)but forgets to pay back,looks down on non-pre-med students n you're non-pre-med,looks at other women,very jealous,sometimes needs entire weekends alone to study,has a temper/gets moody/jealous, as in picking arguments mid-debate n punching walls if it gets heated, whines A LOT, doesn't want a relatonship
2006-11-08 07:53:33 · 19 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a waste of time to be with. Don't worry about him. It sounds as if he enjoys his own company.
2006-11-08 07:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay if your picking him apart now and finding flaws what do you think a relationship would be like???he does have so issues but maybe not to the next girl.....just some people have other interest and some have the same....some men need pampering and some are macho....and some need women to help with every step of their life...well that's life and either we except them or just let them go....its up to you and what you want????no one on here can help with this question....you have to make the decision....the other thing is if he wants weekends alone then there is probably some one else in the pic....so i would be very careful with what you wanna do with the relationship./...you may get hurt in the long run....good luck in what you choose....:)
2006-11-09 19:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have hardly anything on the good things. What's the point of being financially stable if he's cheap ? So you can remove that one. Doesn't cheat ? How do you know ? Because he told you ? Take that one out. Studying to be a plastic surgeon ? They are all full of themselves. So take that one out. Not needy ?? He needs you to think of his word as the word of god. Take that one out. Thinks your attractive ? Well who doesn't so take that one out. Ya got nothin left. Lose him.
2006-11-08 08:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no !! unless you're a gold digger he sounds like a jerk. I had a relationship with a guy who thought friendship and anything outside his realm of thought was a waste of time, he said all of his friends ate sh*t and barked at the moon. He turned out to be a complete nut case, very controlling and I became afraid of him - his punching the walls turned into punching me.Get out now.........
2006-11-08 07:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually this guy doesn't seem the best BF ever can be... If he's jealous and looks at other women, doesn't want any relationship, it means only that he's doted by a great inferiority complex - he's not sure of himself... isn't it 'cause he's always short of money? ...really, he isn't worth wasting time on thinking about him, he isn't worth even the time spent on typing this question!
2006-11-08 08:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
second paragraph makes me say NO ... Temperament isn't very good why would you date a man that doesn't want a relationship or friends ?? hot headed temper unfriendly cheap jealous ? but he likes to look at other women ? I'd be running in the opposite direction !!
2006-11-08 08:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely very conceded. If he doesn't want a relationship then why persue him. Sounds like he is really into himself and the rest of the world can go to ####.
NO. DO NOT TRY TO DATE THIS SELF CENTERED CHEAP ATHEIST. He sounds like a joke to me and he would only end up hurting you in the end.. Stay away from him!!!!
2006-11-08 07:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, a load of bad things right there that you named. If he said that he loves me and thinks I am attractive, why does he not want a relationship? It totally doesn't make sense. I might date him, then again, I am not so sure. It depends on how into him I am to put up with his behavior.
2006-11-08 07:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut and run as fast as you can. He sounds wayyyyy too volitile to be comfortable with for very long. You shouldn't have to watch your P.and Q's. around any guy you chose to spend time with. He needs to go to anger management classes. Beware of this guy and be very careful around him. I'm very serious. I married a man just like that, and it was very near my undoing. Whatever damage he doesn't do physically, he WILL do emotionally. Chose a man you can be yourself with.
2006-11-08 08:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by smcdevitt2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at the amount of cons you come up with vs. the number of pros. Sounds like you would be getting yourself in pretty deep. I'd say no.
2006-11-08 07:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by robbiec87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋