Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

my parents know I have female friends, but I am the one who has chosen not to tell them about her. This has made my gf insecure, feeling I don't wanna grow up. She is justified, but is she right?

2006-11-08 21:56:50 · 14 answers · asked by ekbensah 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a follow on from a question I posted earlier this week.
Ok, my ex ended our relationship 2 months ago. I have repeatedly asked her to stay away and let me get on with my life (I’m not the begging type) and heal myself but she has made excuse after excuse to come to my house for small items of stuff. So I took advice from people on this board and packed everything I could find into bags and put them in the garage and told her to collect them the following day while I was at work so I did not have to see her. So I get back from work and she has collected some (not all) of the stuff. 10 mins later she knocks on my door asking if her son (who is 17) can store some of his stuff in my garage cos she does not have the room.
She has 2 sisters, a brother and her parents who can help her son out with this…. she says she does not want to be with me so why is she still bothering me with all this crap when I am trying everything to I can to move on without her.

2006-11-08 21:55:37 · 25 answers · asked by bigbadbillybongo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 21:52:57 · 18 answers · asked by Vins 2 in Singles & Dating

we were assigned to debate about divorce (anti-divorce). but how can we deliver a good rebuttal to our opponent even if i know that they have a good chance of winning.. and of course we dont want to turn it that way.. pls give me some pointers about anti-divorce.. pls? tnx..

2006-11-08 21:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by _-rei-_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having my dress made, does anyone know where I can buy lace to go over a plain silk dress to look like this: (http://www.maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?keywordText=angelica&searchId=1728682378&keywordType=any&page=0&pageSize=8&style=J202)

Really need help! I live in London, UK.

Thanks!

2006-11-08 21:51:59 · 11 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2 in Weddings

a partner with whom you have a lot of fun with and intellectually and artistically stimulates you, but your family doesn't like...

or

a partner with whom there is physical attraction and some shared fun, but no intellectual stimulation or good conversations, but your family loves him?

What choice will play out better when you're 20... 30... 40... etc?

2006-11-08 21:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today i was really pissed off cause of the circumstances that was happening to me. i won't focus much attention to it, i would go straight to the topic.
today my mom was having nausea and ask me if i want to go with her, by that time i was also with my bf, i decided to be with my mom cause her condition bothers me. so i went to the hospital but my bf left, he seems to be not in the good mood, i can feel it. now we are texting he told me that he was not in the mood, just as i thought. but he told me he is not angry.
now im wondering why he turned out like that, doesn't he understand my situation? i loved him because he is mature when he thinks, but now he's being childish and it makes me mad.
just want to get your opinion on these. thanks guys!

2006-11-08 21:50:16 · 11 answers · asked by jhen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-08 21:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by Myke 1 in Singles & Dating

Im seeing this guy on a casual basis. we have only kissed eachother despite him wanting to take things further.
i really like this guy. he has been chasing me for ages!
why wont he ask me out on a proper date?
we live in different areas. he only asks me if i would like to meet up if hes out in town to see if im out in his town too.
he always compliments me when we are together and always wants to be around me. he says that im a nice girl etc.
i did end my serious relationship with my fiance a few months ago.(not coz of this guy) this guy did know my ex but they were not friends so he does know about my past relationship. my ex has since moved away. could this have something to do with him not asking me out on a date?is he just giving me space?

2006-11-08 21:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

but im interested more on them as they make a lot of fun and i find it nice

2006-11-08 21:48:47 · 9 answers · asked by jan 1 in Friends

2006-11-08 21:48:00 · 15 answers · asked by gobanana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i have a friend, we often see each other during the weekeds & he is tutoring me with my launguage course too. One night we had dinner in my place together with my two female friends... After an hour or so my friends left & we were just by ourselves, we watched movie which i forgot the title now... We weren`t so into the movie, we just keep on talking about my lfe and his life... when time comes for him to say goodnight, i bid my goodbyes same ways as i bid goodbyes to my two friends but he hugged & kissed me instead... I honestly like my friend but he or we never talk about liking each other... Ohh he leave`s me wondering all night and day. But he sends me messages how glad he was to spent time with me & even letting me know he is out of town this week. My friends keep telling me i am a "girlfriend now" but still it confuses me. Am i just a friend`s friend or a girlfriend?

2006-11-08 21:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by geieyoung 3 in Singles & Dating

i like a girl a lot but don know she likes me or not how can i know it?

2006-11-08 21:44:44 · 15 answers · asked by thegame_ahbk 1 in Singles & Dating

good....bad....whatever!!

2006-11-08 21:44:20 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For years he has thought it was just fine to show his commitment by banging on **** in the garage!? Now I've had it, he knows it, he is trying but... I am last on his list of people he is emotionally connected to or supportive of. I am lonely for a connection that we havent had for years. Years of this has put my patients for his love and affection on a short and sensetive fuse. He has made many other mistakes, is working on them, is pulling his head out of his *** when it comes to family stuff, but with me/ still last.

2006-11-08 21:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by itsmyturn38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I put all my hopes and happiness on the other person's shoulder and I want them to love me so much but when i realise it might not work I am crushed. I have low self esteem and I would like to know how to be happy with myself and feel confident in a relationship... not needy.

2006-11-08 21:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by Jean-Pierre G 1 in Singles & Dating

v have sexual terms inspite of age difference.it is decided v willl never married but always remain intouch like now ..tell me wat should i do leave him or keep the tems as i have these days.wat will b better 4 me in future?

2006-11-08 21:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my last question seemed like I just wanted sex and that I can't wait or w/e. It's not like that lol, but we only see each other once a week... but just say yes / no to these.

Fingering (I'm guessing no),
Rubbing of clit,
Dry sex, and
Sex.

if it's gonna hurt at all I don't wanna do it...

PS: I'd rather have some girls who have personal experience with this answer, lol.

2006-11-08 21:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by omega 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 21:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing this lad 4 a month i like him, bt a week i found out he has a girlfriend which he has been with 4 years. he is round mine everyday, bt ovious i no it wrong bt cos i didnt no 4 3 weeks about his gf i started gettin feeling 4 him. some people say its fine bt i no its wrong what do i say to him coz he is gonna fink i am stupid coz i hav known 4 a weeks i shud hav stoped wen i found out bt i liked him how stupid am i. im only 19. how can i tell him i dnt want 2 c him. help!

2006-11-08 21:37:44 · 6 answers · asked by jess 1 in Singles & Dating

to the house this was happening.. All i want to do is make sure that both my daughters and this sweet childs welfare is safe.. I've tried talking to this woman whose house it is and she is very unsavoury but my daughter is using emotional blackmail against me and said if i contact social services that she will have nothing more to do with me.. the only reason my daughter is at that house is because she gets to do what she wants there come and go as she pleases drink til all hours day and night smoke and quit school..The only reason my daughter ranaway from home is because she is 16 and had a 10-30 curfew and she thought it was pathetic...

2006-11-08 21:37:30 · 20 answers · asked by . 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

and army people life is in always danger.i could not decide what to do. His mother & Father see my photo and they like it. there family is also a high society & respected.all thing is good but he was in army that thing was dissappointed me.and after that he was 9 months away from india and 3 months in home for three & four years.this thing also herristed me.How can a girl live alone after few days of a marriage. just give a perfect opnion.

2006-11-08 21:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by SAPNA D 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it weird to like 2 people if ure like 14?

2006-11-08 21:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by guyhasaquestion 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 21:35:28 · 3 answers · asked by vinadh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend and i used to hang out alot, with another friend. But since the fall out of my other friend, me and my best friend no longer see each other no more. The last time i spoke to her was last christmas, but have recently recieved a phone call of news from her that she is pregnant. I congratulated her on the news, however our conversation didnt last long... she says she plans to visit me some time, i dont count on it as she is more the other girls best friend now, and only sees me for a bit of gossip. Is that why she rang besides her news to catch up on the juicy gossip of my life and report back to the others... about how miserable i am doing?

2006-11-08 21:34:50 · 23 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Friends

What should I do?

2006-11-08 21:32:54 · 32 answers · asked by Cops 1 in Singles & Dating

I started having sex since 8 month and we both cant stop our self even for one week the only time we stop having sex when its my periods so what to do now?

2006-11-08 21:29:07 · 38 answers · asked by Ayesha 1 in Singles & Dating

and her uncle last I heard was still on a breathing machine in an ICU at a Perth hosptal and not doing well, I now think that the worst has happened and hence she aint called as yet.....why not though? and how soon should I go there from Launceston, Tas to be with her??

2006-11-08 21:28:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do girls stab each other in the back?Like, they could be friends until one of them starts going out with the other's ex bf.they kill their friendships so easily.

2006-11-08 21:27:21 · 11 answers · asked by Alkaz 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for the past 4 years. We recently got back together cause we can't seem to let each other go but we keep arguing over the most stupid things and now I think i've ruined things? I've got 2 weeks till we go on a make or break weekend away any tips on how to keep my man as I know he is the love of my life and that we just need to get through this rough patch.

2006-11-08 21:26:23 · 19 answers · asked by tasty.tan 1 in Singles & Dating