but im interested more on them as they make a lot of fun and i find it nice
2006-11-08 21:48:47 · 9 answers · asked by jan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes when something that effects us intimidates us or hurts us happens, the simplest solution/answer doesn't cross our minds!
And it's absolutely natural. So, Have you consider just to ask them to be open? Or that it would be healthier for your relationship not to have secrets between friends?
See their reaction and after that decide if they are friends that worth keeping and trust or they are just people to hung around with (without being overly attached to them).
Good luck
2006-11-08 21:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Elena E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking about secrets is a natural part of friendship. In fact that is what binds other friendships together. You can enjoy their company and have fun but when they need to talk be a listening and sympathetic ear too. Just listen ,they will be appreciating it a lot.
2006-11-09 06:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume the concern is that your friend talks others' secrets (not his/her own secrets) in front of you and so you are not sure if such a person can be trusted.
But they are fun and you do not want to be devoid of the fun.
Simple, have fun with them - do not tell them any of your secrets.
2006-11-09 18:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by lonely_searching_preet(i) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call them friends when they can't share their secrets with you? Who knows their little secrets could be about how dumb you are! If they keep talking secrets when you are around, they don't trust you. Since they don't trust you, they don't qualify to be your friends. What you think of their fun could become a scorn for you later on.
However, before deciding to leave them, try talking to them that you don't like them have their private secrets when you are around. Either they trust you or you are gonna leave them.
If they don't really care about you leaving them, it is worth you leaving them.
Good luck
2006-11-09 06:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from friends that talk much, it wont help you despite their funny act, you will really behave like them someday
2006-11-09 06:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking behind people's back is very bad and if u r making fun of them is even worst. so i suggest stay away from such kind of people..
2006-11-09 05:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actully, they are not your friends. They are your enemy.
I think, if anybody share his/her secrets with you, he belive on you. So why are you spreading his secrets. This breaks your trust on his/her. It is wrong.
friend, they are your very big enemy.
2006-11-09 06:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Aditya Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better talk to them and clear abt ur feelings tht will help.
2006-11-09 05:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by miss_amal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NOOOOOOOOOooooooooo........
2006-11-09 06:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋