i have been seeing this lad 4 a month i like him, bt a week i found out he has a girlfriend which he has been with 4 years. he is round mine everyday, bt ovious i no it wrong bt cos i didnt no 4 3 weeks about his gf i started gettin feeling 4 him. some people say its fine bt i no its wrong what do i say to him coz he is gonna fink i am stupid coz i hav known 4 a weeks i shud hav stoped wen i found out bt i liked him how stupid am i. im only 19. how can i tell him i dnt want 2 c him. help!
2006-11-08 21:37:44 · 6 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you cannot be in a relationship with someone whose whole heart is not available and who doesn't respect you enough to be honest and straightfoward with you.
He lied to you from the start and why would you want to subject yourself to that sort of dispectful deception? That's just asking for trouble. I know it'll be difficult to call it off, but believe me... there are tons of guys out there that will respect you enough to a) not lie to you and b) BE SINGLE :)
2006-11-08 21:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by readysteadystop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like that tell him you don't want to see him cause he already is in a relationship and you are wrong for not putting a stop to it when you found out.
2006-11-09 05:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was kinda hard to read there.....
If you want to be treated like crap then stay with him. Feelings or not, don't you realize that you're second choice, on the back burner? Is that what your worth? Let him go because he's not really yours to begin with.
2006-11-09 05:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call and dont answer to his calls and dont let him to meet with you and dont go to see him. if you meet him by coons. say to him that you dont want to seehim anymore coz he has a gf.
2006-11-09 05:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by rifat i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy tell him I don't want to see you anymore, you have a gf.
2006-11-09 05:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him like this: if I liked you, what would you do?
But you should make sure if you really like him first!
2006-11-09 05:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by adam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋