Ok, i have a friend, we often see each other during the weekeds & he is tutoring me with my launguage course too. One night we had dinner in my place together with my two female friends... After an hour or so my friends left & we were just by ourselves, we watched movie which i forgot the title now... We weren`t so into the movie, we just keep on talking about my lfe and his life... when time comes for him to say goodnight, i bid my goodbyes same ways as i bid goodbyes to my two friends but he hugged & kissed me instead... I honestly like my friend but he or we never talk about liking each other... Ohh he leave`s me wondering all night and day. But he sends me messages how glad he was to spent time with me & even letting me know he is out of town this week. My friends keep telling me i am a "girlfriend now" but still it confuses me. Am i just a friend`s friend or a girlfriend?
2006-11-08 21:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by geieyoung 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for the answers... i truly appreciate it so much... In fairness to my friend`s sake --- for Monika, we do respect each other & my friend is a good friend...i like him and i knew he likes me too i can feel it- i know for sure he is not after my body. But anyways thank you for the advices, to all of you-- if i can only make you all the best answer then i would but unfortunately i can only pick one:)
Am glad there`s still real people out there answering real questions... God bless all!
2006-11-08 22:20:16 · update #1
hi, he sounds like a really nice guy, you will just have to pluck up the courage and try and ask him how he feels, if he says he wants to be just friends then yes you will feel slightly stupid and embaressed but at least you will know one way or the other, this way you can move on with your life if he does say no he doesnt like you like that then still be his friend it would be a shame to let this friendship gets spoilt, but if he says yes then it is even better as you started of as friends and will know each other inside and out how special will that romance be, good luck i hope you get the answer of him you want...i liked my friend for 16years but was too shy to say anything then i was talking to him one night after we both got partners and he said he used to really like me but was too shy to say anything i really regretted not saying anything and seeing where it would have led all those years ago, don't you do the same.
2006-11-08 22:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the song. Its in his kiss? The kiss tells alot. Take one day at a time. As time passes and u see one another more than likely there will be no mistake as the intentions will become clearer and clearer. Relax and do nothing at all for now
2006-11-09 05:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by alheseas 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Right now you are just a friend. He is telling you he is out of town because he is tutoring you and you need to know that he won't be there that weekend.
2006-11-09 05:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yse buddy, it seems you are becomming a girl friend. But, please make it clear with him. If he notify his moments to you, it is a clear indication that you are more than a friend to him.
And I wonder what kind of kiss you got from him..? That also tels hoe he feel about you.
Best thing is have a long chat with hime and tell him how you feel, clearly. Since you two are good friends, it is easy to talk anything.
Good luck
2006-11-09 05:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chooti Kuku 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is the whole when harry met sally theory that men and women cant be friends, as all men want more from a women. but best thing to do is talk to him about it. don't make a big deal about it either. i think u cant assume that he thinks u r together as it's a hug good bye and a kiss. no big deal. but talk to him. communication is the answer!!!
2006-11-09 05:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tbees 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why did u allow him to do this?!!
Believe me , whe u refuse such acts from all boys , u will win........
read my words carefully , if u like it not. , don't forget it,,the days will prove i'm advicin u honstly....
Don't accept any dates except whome loves u honstly from deep inside his heart not for u body shape or u r a good girlfriend for having sex then he leaves u for another one who will have sex in bases that he (listened alot about ur ability to plesure him ) not coz he loves u....
believe me , i tried & now i'm married & lives a wonderful live with the only man who touched me when we married......
Again., marrying virgin is a dream for respected men...
I wish u a happy life
2006-11-09 06:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Monika 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as per i think he is in love with u and want to make a relation ship. It depends up on u in what way would u like tak this relation.
2006-11-09 05:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by demon 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We ned further analysis of the kiss.
Specifically, were tongues involved or not, and in what capacity...?
I suspect that he wants to get into your knickers however.
2006-11-09 08:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the kiss, you can tell if it was a friendly or a real one. But 95% it;s real
2006-11-09 05:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by alexsipilot 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're just a friend's friend and not a girlfriend...till he asks you out on a date.
2006-11-09 05:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋