a partner with whom you have a lot of fun with and intellectually and artistically stimulates you, but your family doesn't like...
or
a partner with whom there is physical attraction and some shared fun, but no intellectual stimulation or good conversations, but your family loves him?
What choice will play out better when you're 20... 30... 40... etc?
2006-11-08 21:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
edit: this isn't actually hypothetical. these are real guys who I have dated a bit and have been vying for my attention for 4 and 1 years, respectively.
2006-11-08 21:59:10 · update #1
This is someone YOU are going to live with for possibly the rest of your life. Now do you want to live with someone who stimulates you or someone who simply doesn't do it for you? Whether your prospective is liked by your family or not isn't as important as what you feel because they aren't the ones who will be living with your partner.
2006-11-08 22:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by dirkthesmirk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id have to say the one my pares didnt like wats a relationship without a good all night long convo in each others arms no string attatched till the next night. lol
2006-11-08 22:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I go for pretty much anyone with a good personality, good sense of humour and sexually adventurous... :D
2006-11-08 21:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just look for that spark that makes me feel warm inside ..
2006-11-08 21:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
mine is a combination of good part of both............
2006-11-08 21:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by mukul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋