Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

My wife wants to divorce me because she thinks I've cheated on her and it's not true. I love her to death but her parents have never accepted me. We've known each other since we were born, I love my baby with all my heart, but she's been adivised by her family to leave me for good. I'm very desperate and I'm considering on ending my life somehow. Please help me, I'm not kidding. My wife caught her father cheating when she was 6 years old and now she's got a huge trauma and obviously projects that towards me. She's my life. If I lose her, there will be nothing worth living for in my life. I want her to get some therapy with me, but she's not helping and does not want anything with me anymore. God help me please! If anyone can help please reach me 310-430-2414. God Bless all of you.

2006-11-08 19:01:55 · 21 answers · asked by lovingarcia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in a college dorm and I live in an apartment with this other girl. She has her boyfriend living with her in the apartment when she's not supposed to. Her boyfriend is quiet but he always hangs around in the living room. My room is small so sometimes I would like to have family and friends over and hang out there. But I can't b/c he's always there!!! To make matters worse, at night I hear them having sex. She is also lazy and doesn't help keep the place clean. There is a vacant room in another apartment so I am thinking about moving out. I don't want to get her in trouble but I also don't want to have to move out my things in the middle of the year. If I separate her and her boyfriend things will be worse for me b/c it seems like they hang out with noone but each other. She's already a mean person and will make me unhappier living there. What do you think I should do?

2006-11-08 19:00:50 · 19 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

When a man talks down to you and says mean awful things about you, calls you fat, ugly, lazy, broke and insults u in everyway he can. But you k now those things r not true. Why do mean say that when they are angry ?

2006-11-08 18:58:40 · 23 answers · asked by Karina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 18:57:48 · 23 answers · asked by x 1 in Singles & Dating

I need help on how to approach black girls. I never had any black friends, and simply never had any contact with black people up until college, but I find myself attracted more and more to black girls. The only problem is that the ones I find attractive, bluntly put, the ones that look like a music video dancer, I have nothing in common with. And to top things off, I am not a good dancer. Is this hopeless situation?

2006-11-08 18:56:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you be flattered even though you are not attracted to them, or would you be annoyed and wish they never approached you?

2006-11-08 18:55:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My uncle is 85 and bedridden, but still mentally alert. He can sit up in a wheelchair or chair, but not walk. He was active most of his life. His hobbies were woodworking, hunting, and fishing. He enjoyed watching baseball and college football. What can I give him for Christmas (in the approximately $25 to $50 range) that will make his days a little brighter? Thank you for your advice.

2006-11-08 18:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by Rusting 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this female frnd,we are very good frnds,but are not dating but flirting a lil though not committed.She flirts with all guys and had 2 bfs before.Now she is alone.She is an attention freak.I did not write to her/call her for about 7-8 days cos i wanted space to myself and had a death in my extended family and was no mood to speak to her.I wrote to her after 10 days and said the reason for not writing.Now she is not responing and is ignoring me.She feels ppl are born to give her attention all the time.should i write to her saying sorry and request her to reply or just behave as nothin has happened cos i have already written and its her turn to respond...i dont like her attitude and cant be put up with it for long but dont want to lose a frnd fo silly reason either.Whta should i do?

2006-11-08 18:51:36 · 17 answers · asked by siddharthmalhotra2001 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 18:51:01 · 25 answers · asked by helaena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

welll i have this really gud net frd... n 4 him .....im more than a frd ...he wants 2 spend his life with me. i have no such feelins 4 him n i've made this clear but still when ever v chat he starts of with the same thin....wht shud i do ?...shud i cease chattin with him ?

2006-11-08 18:50:01 · 36 answers · asked by khushi 1 in Friends

My mother-in-law has been living with us since July and can't seem to make up her mind in what she wants to do. Well she has also occured some bills and now wants us to pay them for her well she gets more than 2x a month than we get and she eats all our food and kids' snacks and has raised my electric bills and just won't help out she won't even babysit how do we get rid of her. My husband has tried talking to her and all she does is cry and then he feels bad and thats the end of it. I'm not allowed to talk to her cuz I'm too mean but I need some sanity!

2006-11-08 18:49:31 · 17 answers · asked by emotionalyhurtmom 4 in Family

my dear friends...i got to know this guy online and e were talking to each other for abt a week. finally, he said he wanted to meet and i said fine. we were suposed to meet yesterday. The night b4, my mum wasn't feeling well and i sent him a text message stating that i wouldnt be able to make it for the meeting as i need to tak emy mum for check up and i'll try to meet him by this week. tht's it. after tha ti never heard from him at all. many times i called him today but he neve rpicked my call. then, i met him on yahoo messenger and he said tht i'm a women who plays with men and he told me to keep away from him and never to clal him again or he would get really upset. Why did he change like this?i ont understand. If he was upset with me tht he cudnt meet me, then shud i have left my mum and just met him? i thought he was understanding. i lost a friend and i feel guilty. but why did he accuse me tht i m playing with men and i shudnt treat him like an animal?al those words hurt me

2006-11-08 18:46:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pls give me details.

2006-11-08 18:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We werent married and we made a lot of purchases together. And a lot of them were on her credit cards. A lot were cash from money I made. I was woking at paying her back. Now its getting ugly and may go to court. Do I legally owe?

2006-11-08 18:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old were you when you had your first True relationship....not just puppy love?

2006-11-08 18:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my school. We sorta have a history, we were sorta together a while ago, it wasn't official or anything, but we both liked each other. Then one day, it ended pretty badly. But, eventually we were alright and now we're almost like best friends. However, I think I love him, because I always depend on him to comfort me. For example one time, something bad happened and I called him and he helped me calm down and what-not. But the other day I tried to sorta tell him that I loved him, but I said it pretty fast and bluntly, and he said. "of course, you love all your friends that way." meaning that he either does not get what I mean, or does not wish to hear it. But, I think he's over me...since nothing is like before when we were always close and what-not. What do you think I should do? I'm not even sure if i'm in love or not, and I doubt the feeling is two-sided.

2006-11-08 18:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by Peek-A-Boo. 2 in Friends

It used to be easy to find a pretty, goofy, tom-girl and now it seems that every woman who you talk to you automatically thinks you just want sex. Does anyone know where these tom girls hang out so I get hooked up already?

2006-11-08 18:41:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shift, You do have boyfriend/girlfriend but do not reside in same apartment and the ex that is intoxicated will be leaving in the morning before you get home from work. Ex has no family in the area justs needs a place to sleep for the night. How would you feel? What would you do?

2006-11-08 18:41:11 · 7 answers · asked by sweetie1995 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a girl cheated in you and u moved on and now she says she wasn't thinking right and she wants u back ? should i ditch her

2006-11-08 18:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Alkaz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 18:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by davidindrani 1 in Weddings

this is what happened. i like this girl and shes on the basketball team. she doesnt have a bf but she has been talking to this guy a lot lately. i tried out for the team because of her but got cut. i really like this girl but right now it seems like she likes this other guy. what should i do?

2006-11-08 18:38:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was 18, he was 27. He was murdered sept 2005. Anyway, there was this one girl who he said'Oh she a stripper and she sleeps with those illegal immigrants(which was tru) and I don't mess with her cuz she turns tricks and I just refer her to the Mexican guys that come buy drugs and she gives me a cut for each referral.BUT she does like me and she ask my friends 'Why he don't mess with me, and she call me but it's strictly business'
There was one time I was at his home and a Mexican guy came over 2 buy some drugs and he was asking me if I turned tricks(my boyfriend was in the backroom) and I was like"No I'm his girlfriend' and he was like oh sorry. So I'm guessing it was not only her tricking off maybe some other females.
BTW I have never smoked and I don't drink. My boyfriend was just a drug dealer.
1)Do u think he was sleepin with the prostitutes, or how often does a guy in his situation sleep with women who turns tricks.
2)Do u think he was messin with the above mention chick

2006-11-08 18:37:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Rhetorical question. I'm just curious. You don't need to worry about hurting my feelings, but please answer honestly.


Let's say my mom and dad are divorced. My mother remaried, and so did my father. My mother had a daughter with her second husband, and my father had a son with his second wife. Therefore, they would be my half sister and my half brother. That means my half sister and half brother have no relationship to one another.

Would it be OK for my half brother and half sister to become romanticly involved (aka married) in regaurds to:
-legality?
-morality?
-social acceptence?

Remember- they are not related through blood.

2006-11-08 18:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by cherry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do u think that virginity is important to a girl?

2006-11-08 18:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by evolutionf330q 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 18:37:13 · 23 answers · asked by Chad G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

going back to my other question about girls that are friends, what can you say to a girl , without saying i want to do you, to let her know that is what u want to do

2006-11-08 18:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by tweeter12351 1 in Singles & Dating

My Ideal girlfriend must have: Long hair, beautiful smile, smarter than me, care of people & never smoke cause I don't smoke, I don't care about looks but I do care about their smile, it can make them look beautiful & confident.

2006-11-08 18:35:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi there, me and my friend are doing a survey on teen violence. Ok, to answer these questions, just copy and paste the questions and put YES or NO next to them. You dont have to give examples of what happened to you but it would help. And please put down whether you are female or male. Thankyou very much :)

1.Have you ever been in a fight?

2.Have you ever witnessed a fight?

3.Have you ever gotton into trouble for fighting?

4.Have you ever been in a fight to which the police were involved?

5.Have you ever had a fight end in hospitalization?

6.Do you or have you ever carried a weapon?

7.Have you ever used a weapon in a fight?

8.Have you ever stepped in to stop a fight?

9.Would you ever step in to stop a fight?

10.Do you think fighting fixes your problems?

2006-11-08 18:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi there, me and my friend are doing a survey on teen violence. Ok, to answer these questions, just copy and paste the questions and put YES or NO next to them. You dont have to give examples of what happened to you but it would help. And please put down whether you are female or male. Thankyou very much :)

1.Have you ever been in a fight?

2.Have you ever witnessed a fight?

3.Have you ever gotton into trouble for fighting?

4.Have you ever been in a fight to which the police were involved?

5.Have you ever had a fight end in hospitalization?

6.Do you or have you ever carried a weapon?

7.Have you ever used a weapon in a fight?

8.Have you ever stepped in to stop a fight?

9.Would you ever step in to stop a fight?

10.Do you think fighting fixes your problems?

2006-11-08 18:32:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-08 18:31:16 · 19 answers · asked by rick_james 1 in Singles & Dating