2006-11-08 18:31:16 · 19 answers · asked by rick_james 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone that comes in and out of our lives has a purpose. They're meant to teach us something about ourselves. The frustrating part is we don't always know what the hell it is we were supposed to learn. Answers come with time. My ex-boyfriends were my best teachers. Today, I have an incrediable relationship that I never thought I would have. I hate to say it, but without my past experiences, I would have never learned enough about myself to be with the man I have today. It sucked then, but I am so greatful now.
It was almost a year since my last relationship before I met my current boyfriend. During that time, I kept myself busy. Started taking martial arts, hiking, dancing...whatever. I stopped trying to "look" for someone and I let him find me. It just happened and I honestly couldn't be happier. There is happiness after hell. : )
2006-11-08 18:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man trust me there are more fish in the sea, i know it's kind of what everybody says but it's the true. i've had my heart broken before and it sucks but in my experience the best thing to do is listen to some rockin music and hang out with some friends or just do something that you like. just get your mind off everything for a little bit you'll begin feelin better i promise you. if it's ment to be you'll know but for right now just get away from the situation. good luck man and if you need to talk just send me a instant message.
2006-11-08 18:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out!!!!!!! I know you dont exactly feel like it right at his moment but it really DOES help get your mind off that person and who knows, mabey youll meet someone that is a better fit for you. Avoid bars though, cuz that tends to bring the wrong kind of girl, and you need a GOOD girl in your life to follow up that bad one. Just keep your head up kiddo, theres much more joys in life and trust me you will find the one to fit you!
2006-11-08 18:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We experience so many things and everything happens for a reason. We may not know what the reason is yet, but it does. We gain experiences and we learn from them. We use the past to build the future.
Don't worry. God has a plan for you. Just have faith in Him.
2006-11-08 18:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that it's hard to take it but you should start all over again....make new friends not forgetting your old friends too..Just tell yourself, dont give up because of one failure relationship. The next one will be even better. Life is short so enjoy it.... :)
2006-11-08 18:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to cheek in with her talk about whathappend or what caused the brake up better the devel you know than the angel you dont know.
2006-11-08 18:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tsenpet w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must look ahead to new life...so either u occupied yourself with thing to do and let time heal the wound and maybe you will find your the ONE juz ard the corner
2006-11-08 18:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by issac e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it will take time; so distract yourself in the mean time. Go find other people to date when you are ready. Don't look back, & burn ALL of her lovey dovey letters she wrote to you. Get rid of everything. You'll feel better.
2006-11-08 18:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks like SHE was the one who broke up.... look at the good side of it.... THERES NO MORE HER!! u can be free to do whatever u wan includin diggin for otha chicks.... come on if u cry then its always the otha person was the king in the realtionship... n ur a GUY... guys dont cry... be happy n cheerful.... dont be sad it ended be happy tht it happened!
remember when god closes one door he always opens anotha one ;P mail me if u like
2006-11-08 18:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i just got this message..
loving is always a learning process. with love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. we learn to be unselfish and give more than what we can. but when everything doesnt end well, we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt. but learning doesnt have to end there. after our fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. this is what we learn: that life doesnt end where our heartaches begin.. its true there is life in love but there can still be life even after losing love..
hope this will help you.. be strong.. move on.. you can im me and be friends.. goodluck..
2006-11-08 19:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋