if a girl cheated in you and u moved on and now she says she wasn't thinking right and she wants u back ? should i ditch her
2006-11-08 18:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Alkaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you able to forgive and trust her again? if yes, give her a second chance. also depends if you like her or not...
2006-11-08 18:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the run around for a week or so, make her really work for you before alowing her back, just get sex and then walk away from her for a couple of days then come back for a little more sex, treat her liike sjhit, if she stays then you know she really is soorry but if she goes off them forget her and move on. Dont be taken advantage of by anyone ever!!!
2006-11-09 02:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words of gold from Dr. Phil; once your relationship has failed and you have broken up...things will NEVER work out again because the situation may change but the people, the choices they make, their way of life never do. I guarentee you that you will break up again if you decide to accept her offer. If not today then worse still in 10 years time.
2006-11-09 03:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same goes for women as it does for men. Once a cheater it's hard to go back. Stay away from drama, you've already moved on so keep going.
2006-11-09 02:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Taking her back would just teach her that it's ok to do that to you and she would most likely do it again. The bigger question is to ask yourself if you really want to be with someone who treats themselves so poorly? If she doesn't have the esteem to take care of herself, how is she going to be any good for you? That kind of stuff runs deep and really doesn't change very much. It takes years of inner work and willingness to change that. Are you willing to wait? If you do, you're most likely going to cut yourself short and perhaps miss someone that doesn't require "that much" and could really add to your life. Relationships are meant to "complement" your life, not "complicate" it.
2006-11-09 02:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater,ALWAYS a cheater,alot of people I know have had to learn that the hard way.Dont put yourself through unnecessary pain.
2006-11-09 02:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat once cheat always dump her for good and don't look back.
2006-11-09 02:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you moved on, instead of working through it gives you your answer.
2006-11-09 02:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move forward or move backwards? It's really not that difficult, always move forward.
2006-11-09 02:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of things !
2006-11-09 02:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋